Hi there.
The names Shazzospazzo, from Australia. I've always had alot of problems in approaching men, and keeping conversations. I've never really had much success in even smiling from across the room. Usually when I make friends with the opposite sex, It ends up being friendship only, I'm always classed as "one of the boys" But never have succeeded in getting further than that.
The first question I have, and perhaps some ladies of the forum can help me out in this, but using approaches and such that men will use on women... Is there chances it could help me out even approaching a guy? Can these "man meet woman" be reversed somewhat to a "woman meets man"

I have read through alot of posts and noticed a re-occurance of "Be good in bed" but shame I can't even approach someone to even get to this point.

So all Up, Would the approach men use, work for women too?

Cheers.
Spazzospazzo

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Welcome,

I think this forum, as with the whole community, is predominantly men. So my first bit of simple advice would be to change your name and try and use an avatar that gives the impression you are a femal user. Otherwise most forum users who have not read this intro will think you are a guy

In terms of women picking up men, a lot of PUA's actually think that being one of the boys actually works. I'm talking hanging around a few more men now and then and not being a man. The reason some girls become seen as one of the guys and not sexually attarctive is because they usual;ly do not display the characteristics that men look for.

They may dress like males a bit more than a female, they may act like a guy which is usually unattractive, NEVER FLIRTING with men is another problem etc etc

Hope some of this helps, good luck

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"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

Cheers Doyle, you rule. I have been trying to be a little more feminine with "the boys" wearing dresses/skirts. But always have that worry that whoever I speak to will think that one of them is somewhat my partner? Have had this a few time, any advice on how to push this aside?

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invited to ladies' lounge