I been dating since i was 16...I have had 6 gf..two serious ones...my last one really screw me over...I became all nice again and soft...and now I been having problems finding my old self

I went clubbing and been on two dates but i feel something weird...I just cant feel that excitement..Its like im scared to take it further with any girl...


What can I do to be good with girls again....

Unpredicktable

Welcome man,

You need to give just a little bit more info, specifically, why do you feel different? In your opinion what could be the possible problem?

Anxiety? Self doubt? Low confidence?

Hope to hear

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I feel different because back then I knew all the banter and kino...and would be able to go to a club get a number and even a date...I knew most of the tricks...I was able to be cocky funny....

I feel like i am starting all over again...

I think because I was with my ex for two years...and I fell in love with her...and I focus all my energy on her...

I think my problem is falling back in love ..and some anxiety since i have not been out there for a while...

what do you suggest I can do to be myself again and not this nice guy that my ex turn me into...thanks

I think you should go out as much as you can, spend your time with as many chicks as possible.
And then everything you've ever been, comes back.

I had the same thing, a half year ago. And it took me some time, to realize I'm not i a relationship anymore, it needs some time, to get out of the whole thing.

And I started to enjoy the good things, like no one's gonna argue, when I'am going out, nobody blames me for beeing away everyday.

Enjoy your life, have fun, and erveything is coming back to you
Thats how it worked for me