Everything mother told you about treating women growing up, I did. Wow, what a big mistake. Never realized it till a couple months back. Unconsciously i knew there was something wrong with this game plan but I just didn't know where to look for help.

I m 26 years old. Been shy most of my elementary and teenage years. Got into lots of trouble because i was anti-social and fell obsessed with every hot girl who gave me just a tad sense of acknowledgment.

I had a part time job passing out coupons for KFC. This required guts and social skills to even get people to listen to you. So like a child left to go to war untrained, outgunned, and so harmless i couldn't even hurt a fly, I made the approach. What i lacked in social skills i made up for in fighting my fear of approaching people.

Well back to how i first heard of the game. My cousin who got me the job showed me a couple David Deangelo videos. I thought to myself wow this guy is amazing. But my AFC mentality said, someone like me could never be able to pull this off.

As the years went by with no girlfriend or social life, I knew something had to be done. I made an attempt to get introduced to this girl at church. She was at least an 8. I was thinking to myself maybe she was a caterpillar so innocent looking, she didn't know how much of a beautiful butterfly she has become. So like an AFC I made the approach. With no prior knowledge of body language and the proper dominant handshake I gave her a limp shake. I think i probably lost her just from the handshake alone. My mind filled with blanks, I just said "Hi, nice to meet you" then akward silence .“Okay cya around.”.

Thinking like a champion i felt on top of the world. Then it crept in. She became my one-itis. Obsessing over her for days, I couldn't rest. My cousin then tried to help me out and told me about this website.

She was one mean S.O.B. tearing my heart apart. I probably should of noticed since she hadn't answered any of my messages or friends request on Facebook.
After the lethal blow to my manhood and confidence. I started reading about articles and books on PUA. My whole perspective on the game has changed. Now I understand why she responded a certain way and how to change it.

I've been studying the game for about 5 months. It has literally taken over my life but in a positive way. I love music. But i guess my real passion in life would be psychology and how people react to things and why.

My goals are to be the guy all the girls talk about. The one they complain and talk to their AFC guy friends about. But secretly the love it I'm tired of being the AFC i want to be the PUA. I never realized the wealth of information out there on this stuff. Hopefully my ears are open through this journey and I hope i acquire as much as i can to fulfill this life long adventure.

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"If your reading this, keep reading while i talk to your girl because my wing hasn't arrived yet."