Hi all,

Firstly just like to say that i'm very honoured to be apart of this community. I have read a few posts and I love the fact that everyone is trying to help each other out (it's like one big family).

My name is Mitch and i'm new to the game. I am from London and am currently a student in my second year of University studying architecture.

I have never had a girlfriend in my life or kissed a girl, yet alone slept with one. I do have some AA however at University I find it is much easier to talk to girls randomly (this is normally done either by asking about their work or walking into a group where I know at least one person).

A little about my personality: I like to enjoy myself and have fun. I do joke around a lot and often make jokes about serious topics. I am sarcastic to a point where some people I meet think i'm serious when i'm just having fun.

When at University I do tend to insult girls a lot in a very joking manner with a smile or laughter. Sometimes they insult me back in which I respond by either making another joke or saying "wow fiesty".

Here's the problem. I feel that some girls start of well (like we have fun and nice conversation) then slowly decline to a point where i'm stuck in the friend zone (still have fun but it's normally only within University) or possibly less. They don't see me as a potential boyfriend material. Is there a way to get past this?

Since reading the Mystery Method, a week ago I feel that I understand a bit more about the game. Whilst reading it, I read that first impressions are VERY important. The problem lies that in University I have already talked to various girls from my course and a few from other courses. Does this mean I have already ruined my chances with them? If so is there a way to redeem myself?

I look forward to meeting new people in this community, broading my knowledge and experience. Hopefully I will be able to get my first kiss, girlfriend, lay.

- Mitch

PS. If anyone has MSN or a form of IM and would like to discuss PUA stuff feel free to add: mitch2012@live.co.uk

What up Mitchy,

Welcome, any help that you need can defo be found within this forum, just ask any question you have and I'm sure people will have the answer.

I would say about 99% of the community are like you so don't worry haha

Welcome anyway

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