Now then,

I'm from the UK (north 0 hence the 'now then opener').
So, I used to be great at just walking up to women in a bar / club make them laugh. But then I was bigger (from the gym) and sent more on clothes.
Settled down, had kids, got married have no money, i'm boring and the wife now wants a divorce because I'm no longer fun.
So I need to get back into the swing of things. This week I've approached three girls in bars and have done ok ..... its just the close. No issue with walking up making them laugh small talk etc but getting any further and i'm struggling.
I signed up to internet dating and have seen two girls on there that I know / my wife knows so putting a photo on their is a non-starter - got a bite from a pretty girl but she wants to see a photo although apparently i'm not a bad looker i always look pasty and hideous on photos - so what do I anyone got a good line to get the girls email address so I can send her a photo?
- come on guts help required..... how do I get my mojo back....

If you actually did used to hae mojo then it is all about numbers to get you back into the swing. Could do a lot of approaches and soon you'll be back to natural.

OR If you are just going out by yourself or perhaps with a few male mates, then I would suggest going down the preselection route. Get chatting to some girls, ask them to join you/and your mates on a night out.

This gets you back to talking with girls and the theory is that when you are seen with girls, girls become more attarcted to you etc etc

It is easiest to just make 'friends' with a group of females before you move onto anything else. It makes things so so sob much easier.

Read up if you havn't already, preselection it is heavily promoted through Pick-Up.

Good Luck

_________________
"I guess a little small talks in order here now."

"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

Thanks Jimmy for your advice - yeah i don't really have the fear that some guys get i can open - just sometimes after the opening and getting the girls smiling or laughing i run out of things to say and even begin boring myself!
I'll take a look at some of the pre selections tips on here then

have you got any favourites?

I've never really had friends that are girls - never been able to as (prior to getting married) i was only relly interested in women if i had the chance to bang them otherwise i just got bored of them....i know, i know that's bad

Yeah females as friends is one of the biggest recommendations for any PUA, it is more recommended to people like you who can easily open girls AND to make female friends you do not have to worry about trying to get sexual or have enthralling conversations.

You arrange to meet her/them and theri friends with just you or a couple of your friends. You have heard of lets just be friends...well that is essentially what you shoukd aim for until you have what is known as an entourage in PU...you and your girl friends out at clubs and girls find you attarctive. I recommend researching Adam Lyons and Richard La Ruina if you havn't already! Get the free stuff, don't pay until you want to expand your game.

What you are having problems with is known as Mid-game in PU. Their is a section abou it on here if you want a few tips but like I have already said, Richard La Ruina aka Gambler is very good at this...look at a few of his seminar videos.

_________________
"I guess a little small talks in order here now."

"Do I look like a gentleman to you in this shirt and these pants?"

"I know you from some place."

Really appreciate your advice Jimmy 'll do just that - yes mid game does seem to be the game... girls as friends ... well i never!