Hey everyone,

I'm new to the forum and looking forward to bringing a Tokyo perspective to this community. I have lived in Tokyo for about 5 years, and I'm heavily involved in the night life scene organizing events with a group of friends.

I've been working to improve my game over the last 3 years. I have come a long way and I'm happy with my progress, but there is still much to learn.

Off the bat my approach and inner game needs improvement so I'm hoping I can learn to do so from this forum.

Cheers

A polish canadian living in Tokyo that's heavily involved in the night life scene?

What are you doing here on this forum? You sound like someone that should already be one hell of a PUA.

Cheers for being noobs here though!

Thanks If I compare where I was 3 years ago to where I am now I think the jump is pretty far... But still much to learn.

Btw, anyone in the Tokyo area on this forum?

What were you like three years ago?

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Three years ago I was afraid of women... at least when it came to approaching them. I never did. I would only meet women through my friends... and even then I wouldn't talk to them unless they spoke to me first.

I would still be lucky from time to time and manage to get girlfriends but never had one night stands or wore the pants in relationships. I would obey girls if you want to say a lot of the time and was afraid to loose them thinking I wouldn't find someone else... sad but i'm sure common.

Anyway, that was then... fast forward to the start of 2010, I was pulling a new chick home once a month, sometimes even one chick on a friday then another on saturday.

Eventually met this one Russian model ( a 9 to me) who evolved into a GF. Awesome chick, lots of energy, always smiling, and is incredibly accurate with a crossbow... (don't ask me why)... but 2010 was an awesome year for me.

anyway, I ended it with her at the beginning of this year... she is away from Tokyo too often for too long.

But anyway, I figured this is a good opportunity to step up my game again and iron out the things I'm still not satisfied with... and that is approaching women and not running out of things to say... and maybe learning how to escalate with greater skill.