The basic situation is that i have slept with a few women, but not many. In recent years i have put on a lot of weight which undoubtably held me back. I am now losing this weight quickly and i am 6 foot 4 which should also help.

So i have no real skill and am starting university in September, i will be 22 so a little older than most but living in university accomodation with girls aged 18+.

Basically while in university i want to have sex with a monumental amount of women (have the time of my life) and need help and training before hand.

Can it be done then, or am i a lost cause?

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Game on!

Where there's a will, there's a way!

fuck six months, go out and have fun today!

Live today to the fullest and then go out tomorrow and do it even better. Seriously, if you wait untill you have the body you want and the skills you want and wait till all your ducks are in a row you are going to spend your whole life waiting.

Only bugs go into a cocoon and undergo metamorphisis and come out as a different creature. People live day by day and each day they wait for something is day lost that never comes back.

Most of this PUA stuff and "skilz" is all crap. The basic bottom line is just getting out and engaging and interacting with other human beings on a personal level where you are getting to know them as a person and letting them get to know you as a person. After that point the sex comes naturally.

If you learn a few parlor tricks to help you look someone in the eye and open your mouth, that is fine, but it is all about having a real life and getting some social skills so you can relate to people.

You don't need a certification card or a certificate of completion to do that. Get off the computer and go relate to someone face to face right now, I don't care who it is it will be helpfull.

Get a fun and active life and invite people to join you in it. Sexuality is side effect of that, not the cause of it.

You may think you want to bang a "monumental amount of women" but the truth is you want the ability and confidence to do that, but then the reality is you are going to meet some little honey that takes your breath away and you are going to want to be with her like the good Lord intended. If you meet her today do you still want to wait 6 months? Fuck that. live today like it is your last and then if you are blessed with a tomorrow do the same thing again then.

Speaking of parlor tricks to help get started, if you really are starting from ground zero and need a little jump start, there is some merits to doing Style's (Neil Strauss) 30 Day Stylelife Challenge in his book Rules of the Game. A good chunk of it is just mental masturbation but there are some good nuts and bolts things to do such as new grooming habits, hair style, new wardrobe etc as well as some day to day exercises in getting out and talking to people that will help if you really are stumbling with the social skills and approach anxiety. If you do actually go out and do what the book says, it will have an impact.