Hi,

I will not be exposing my real Identity. I'm an enthusiastic university student in London, sociabale, confident and loveable. I'm 22 and haven't had my first kiss yet, yes thats right! embaressing I know, but here's my story

I used to fear women, but now I don't because I'm the nice guy falling in the friend zone trap, I was content with not getting women because "one day something will magically happen", its bullshit. I looked at my life, I'm successful at what I do, infact, I'm everything a woman wants to be with, I started and manage a sports team, I have a very high social status, financially well secure, protected and understand class and style, treat people well and love fun. However, women scare the shit out of me, unless they are a friend. I'm tired, I'm fed up at being 22 with no success, the best I can get is a hug and the rare kiss in the cheek, that feels normal. Things have changed over the past 6 weeks though.

I am surrounded with successful friends when it comes to women. "Tell me how you do it", I ask. The best friends reply with a "it happens naturally". "Fuck you" is what I think in my head.

About 6 weeks ago I've decided to put an end to this, so I started researching online, videos, lectures etc etc, anything, starting with Mystery's show "Pick up artist", I'm a fast learner, I found myself enjoying this! I wanted to become as selfish as my friends who couldn't tell me how its done by not telling them what I'm learning (I'll have you know, I love my friends btw).

I found myself understanding "the game" very quickly, analysing my friends' moves and clock exactly where they went right or wrong, and oooh, this is fun, I've been testing new skills on women, over facebook, or even the female friends I see.

Here I am, learning something new every day (currently reading "the game by Neil Strauss"), I have a HB 9 attracted to me just by testing stuff on her! I can't believe it! And guess what??? Everything has been going smoothely, no angry responses, nothing! I am now a different person to my old me 2 months ago, hours before entering 2011, which ofcourse will be different! I now see the light

I am looking forward to help and seek help from you guys and share experiences here, because even though I don't know you, you're still more useful than my best friends who refuse to have the time and effort to show me the game, so RESPECT to each and everyone of you reading this

Lava

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Inner game is ALL you need, then create your own routine

yo lava. loving the nickname. id introduce myself as lava...damn...lava...wish id thought of that.

anyway. when i first started the game...i didnt get rejected, i was on fire even though it was the first time i ever tried it... but wait for it pal...you will get rejected. go out there do your awesome shit...you sound like a class bloke so just do what it is you do but if you ever get rejected...dont take it personally just learn from it like how you learn from your mates. being rejected is helpful, embrace it.

im only mentioning this cus at the start of my pua career i was pretty damn smooth, but as soon as i got rejected [remember id never tried this shit before] i went on a downward spiral. luckily i managed to pull myself outta that blip. those blips will teach you a lot.

peace. tomlove.

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Watch this guys

hi lava,

great post, I enjoyed reading it.

I had a similar experience when testing the game out initially. I know that it's not going to work every time once I get into it a bit more but it is nice to have a success first !

I look forward to hearing your experiences in the field