Hello all!

Name's Whiskey, and I've come to you for some help. Long story short I've been on over 20 first dates in the last 4 months that have amounted to nothing, and now I'm here to learn what I can change so that women will be more attracted to me.

There was a time when I had trouble getting women to reply to my emails on online dating websites. After reading some books, subscribing to David DeAngelo's mailing list, and employing some of the tactics that was suddenly no longer an issue.

Then I had issues getting numbers,.. after a little experimenting I got to a point that I could get numbers from anyone!

But the phone call would be dull and un-exciting. After some time, talking to enough people, and analyzing where things fell apart - I was able to have an awesome flirty conversation with just about about anyone! And suddenly I didn't have to call anymore,... women were calling me.

At that point first dates were easy to get,.. in fact the last 5 or 6 have asked me out - (I usually say no, but we can do this other thing) but now my hanging point is that women don't seem to be attracted to me in person, and after meeting the fun vibe just fizzles.

I look forward to reading this board, and better understanding how to create a fun, lively, attractive dynamic with women. I'm an adventurer (Off road, hike, mtn bike) so clubs and bars really aren't my scene, but I'm willing to make places like that my second home if that's what it takes to get this part of my life handled.

If I'm being honest what I want is a steady girlfriend,.. not a herum, and I've had them in the past, but mainly by luck. I'm at a point in my life where I want to have a choice of who to date, and that means stepping my game up a notch.

I'm a good looking guy.
6 foot tall
A little overweight, but nothing serious
Good head of hair
31 years old
good posture, and confident in myself.
I'm also funny, and quick on my feet.

Thank you for setting up an environment where I can come find advice on improving myself, and achieving my goals!

If anyone knows of any articles I should read, good threads, has any questions, or any advice, I am all ears.

Whiskey