Hey you guys, Im 18 and im from Victoria Bc in Canada.

I think ill start with my past experiences with girls.... not so good. I remember back in grade 8 I was so close to having my first girl friend. We were into each other for months. As corny as it it sounds, I even bought her flowers in valentines day.. haha. for some reason it never worked out. I think it was that we were both way to nervous.. but anyways that was kinda my first experience

After grade 8 I moved along to high school. What ide call an intimidating new environment. I was low on friends at the moment, and this giant school stressed me out, not to mention the amount of hot girls at this school... holy crap

So I went on a couple years, not getting with girls. Did make a bunch of solid friends which is awesome. Grade 11 summer I hooked up with my first girl "no game here". We were drunk and from what I hear now it was a dare at the time. Still got me stoked on life.

Nothing happened for another year with girls. My senior year things seemed to pick up, a little. I never went to too many parties in high school, just wasn't in the loop. This time i did end up finding one. So me and a couple buddies went. Ended hooking up with a pretty decent chick, while i was drunk of coarse.

I hooked up with a good amount of girls this year it kinda surprised me. It all led up to what made me come here.

In the summer me and my buddy were chilling. He says text this chick, shes dtf. Nervously i do. We text chat for a bit, but it dies down..., now about out three months later I get a text on my phone. It was that chick. She still had no idea who I was haha. Through texting I convinced her to hang out with me. Normally girls probably wouldn't do this but.. she did. I was friggen nervous, this was the first time I had to chill with a girl, who apparently likes me, with no liquid confidence, and possibly try to make moves on her etc. I was stressing all week for this one.

The moment came, and I met her, she was a pretty hot short asian chick, super outgoing and all that. Starting went well. I think she was nervous as well cause she screwed up her words now and then. As the night went on, i felt the spark die. I couldn't make a move on her, i remember thinking in my head what do i do, what do i do!. The conversation was just awful. It almost felt like she was still there not to hurt my feeling or something which is just not rite. End of story, she never texted me back.

So thats pretty much my life story as far as girls go. I get nervous around them, Im an afc, and I dont know what to say.I think its time for a fresh start.

Im about halfway through the game by neil strauss, and ive watched both seasons of vh1's the pick up artist, so ive got a basic understanding of what u guys are about

Thanks you guys, I look forward to becoming a part of the community.

Equalizer