Not sure where to go with this really. I'm 25 years old, I had been dating with girls but it never last long. I never get any either. My first girl, I was deeply love or obsessed with. She gave me a shot and we go out on a date and she later never return my called. Same with second girls, In another word I was an AFC, just so called friend type to them. I gave up dating for 3 years now. Finally last year, I met someone at work. I know what type she is, because in the past three year I spent time and analyzing people. She is the PLAYER type. She played with men heart and full around with them. Just like my previous girls. At first I did not pay attention to her. I talk to her friend, I hang out with her friend and she started to drop by and decided to hang out with us. I know she was paying attention to me when I looked back at it now. At the time, she also with her boyfriend, but I know her type, she would cheat on the boyfriend if she wanted to. Anyway, me and her did hang out couple of time, and she invite me to her place a lot. But we never do anything not even held her hand. My guesses are that because she don't want to give me the wrong idea because we are co-worker and does not want to create drama at work. So I finally confront her and ask her if she wanted to hook up. I usually don't date people from work either, but something come over me with this girl. I guess I have been out of the game for too long and was so obsessed with this one. Anyway, she say no of course. The mind bugging thing is, she talked and still have me over to her place. She sometime push me out, and start to pull me back in like she's controlling me. And I have noticed this too, but still follow her like a f*cking puppet. At the moment she is ignoring me right now. But I keep calling her and text her. She say she needed space. The f*ck up thing is I know she been dating and sleeping with someone else and she told me about it. I think she do it on purpose. I'm a smart guy and I get the message, but my mind just cannot get over her. I have a good chemistry around her still. It's really bother me right now that she is not talking to me. It'd been two weeks. I see her at work, but she is completely ignore me. She did not say hi or make any eye contact with me. My buddy tell me to move on I listen to him, but I still cannot get over her. I guess I fall for her spell. I don't know if my post make any sense. But please help or guide me. I know I need to find someone else. It's hard for me, because I am shy. My buddy also told me to listen to The Game by Neil Strauss and The art of Seduction by Robert Greene. I realize my mistake and all but still cannot get over her. It's weird. Any suggestion would help guy. Help out a buddy here.

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