Hey guys, I'm posting this here for a few reasons. One, to hold myself accountable, two, to somewhat introduce myself (this section of the forum seemed to be the best fit for this post) and three, because it's something I can now look at every day and remind myself why I'm here.

Recently I got out of a two year LTR which was long distance. No doubt, I loved this girl to death, but after 2 years and with only 6 months left in college (for her, i already graduated) she said she couldn't take me not being there anymore and we split. 2 weeks later, she slept with someone else. She still says when she graduates she wants to get back together, but to me, all that says is she thinks I'll just hang around and she can do what she wants.

It was at this point I realized I'm better than this. Well I'm going to look at her biggest mistake and see it as my biggest opportunity. I can now use this incredible amount of available pua knowledge that's right at my fingertips.I don't want to find women that are disposable, but I want to find the ones that make me better myself. As my wing says, "I don't do it for the women, I do it so the guy in the Rolls Royce wants to know who I am when I walk in a club." I want to build the social proof to make this girl realize what she lost. I want to prove to myself that I have it and can get whatever I want. That's the best part about this community; while it revolves around women it ultimately revolves around life. One learns to become social, confident, what to say in what situations, and how to say it. One learns to be conscious of their surroundings, notice details, be carefree, carry themselves well, enter rooms with a smile, make heads turn, and the list can go on an on.

It's about getting what you want out of life. It's about turning yourself into a person that no woman would ever dream about leaving even if you were on another planet. I refuse to sit here and think about her with another guy, but instead am going to get out there and prove to myself on any given night there are a multitude of girls better than her and I can get day 2's with every single one of them. It's about finding yourself, your inner game, and not letting go of it. Because ultimately that is what makes people successful.

I am posting this so I never forget why I wanted to become part of this community and so that I don't lose focus. Because there are times it's hard. For instance, when you have a bad night and all you wanted was to be with some new girl to take your mind off the old one. But instead you open 50 bad sets. Or when that AMOG blows you out.

But the beauty of it is, you have this mindset that it's always their loss. You are the prize and it doesn't matter what girl is fucking who, because whoever it is you are better than him. And ultimately you will come out on top.

Glad to be here everyone; look forward to talking with you all in the near future as I learn more about not only women, but myself!