I came into the community after watching some of Mystery’s videos on YouTube. They helped cure my virgin-itis. Anyways I think i can become the best PUA in the world if I try hard enough. Right now I am absorbing as much information on PU as I can, and trying to make my life as interesting as possible

personality SPAM:
Socially not awkward
Unconfident
"Chill"
Nice guy
Love learning new things; especially about people and socializing.
Spontaneous
Addictive personality

What I want to achieve:
The ability to be a nice guy and succeed with women
Unbreakable confidence
Power
Wealth
The ability to display my personality the way I want to. ( A lot of times people misread me because I have bad posture, or I say bold statements without thinking them through).
Great communication skills

I want to have a good time, not take the game too seriously, and get no diseases...lol

I'm 20 yrs old, I have something nobody else has, it can make me the best PUA or the worst.

Can you guys recommend any books on communication, confidence, meditation/hypnotism/hypnotherapy, or palm reading? Thx for lookn8)

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Hey, man.

Listen, I can't give you any book you ask, but I can say a thing or two I've been practicing to gain confidence.

I listen a guy or bunch of them telling that confidence is psychologic. And you know it's true. By logical, so does the "unconfidence".
Because your subconscious is so powerfull, some little things you do on your life, that you wouldn't even think about it, could programed your brain to never feel confident.

So I'm trying some techniques I've been seeing round the community and outside them and somethings I "create" them myself.


First, try to do something bold to you every day. If you're a right guy, allways following the law, try to spit on the floor (such an exageration of unconfidence, but you understand me), make a funny face to a kid on the street, try walking with your eyes closed in your house, your background or in some place it isn't risky and stupid (I don't wanna be responsable for damages!).

Go to the mall and lock eyes with girls.
Try to smile them, try to not smile them, try to say hi, try to not say nothing untill they say ( this is actually from David Shade eyes experience. look it up)

Ask directions from a stranger. If you feel confortable already, make them laugh.

go to the mall and say Hi to every girl you see. every girl. don't even think. Say hi to girls with 20 seconds between them, more or less, just the enough time for you to not think about the other girl and use the courage from one girl to another.

Develope yourself to the point where you like yourself. Don't be a copy of a Pick-up Artist! Try to adapt his techniques and try to use only the ones you think it would fit with your personality.

Don't make a big effort to be the alpha male, showing you know about everything, you're so smart. Being inteligent and cult is a plus, but wait for the right moment to say something (when you get good at it maybe you can manipulate the right moment), say something clever, not to long, resume it, and carry on like it wasn't no big deal.

Don't say everything that comes in to your mind; and sometimes let them win one. Then say yes and make a smile that says "I know that, but I'm not gonna grab about it because I'm humble".

There's possible another thing or two that I'm trying, but for now this is good.

Again, I'm trying this material, I can't promisse you that it would work. But what I'm trying to work is my inner game, try to erase a bad habit of being unconfident and write a new one. A better one.

Big Hug.
Prince Charles.

Thanks for the advice Prince charles:). I like what you said about doing something bold every day, cheers!

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