Hello all,

I'm a 24 yr old, East asian guy living in London UK. My life for the past 24 years has been monotonous, like nothing ever happens. I mean it. My family didnt celebrate any holidays, have any sort of parties, and no they didnt even celebrate b-days. My teenage years was squandered without any contact with any girls. From 18-21, during which I was at uni, I found myself socially inept, and clueless as to what to do with women. In my final year, I plucked up some courage and manged to get a girlfriend (she is also E asian) I dated her for 3 months, and no I didnt have sex with her since I couldnt F-close it due to LMR, and we broke up soon after. She was my the closest I have ever been with with a woman. For the next 2 years after that 21-23, I went into a deep depression, I was out of uni, didnt have a job, didnt have a gf, didnt have a life. I was playing a certain Multiplayer online game for 24/7. So yea you guessed it, I havent done any girls.
I recently went to the Erotica 2010 convention and met these 2 girls (A mixed and a white british girl), I took some initiative and snogged the mixed chick within 1 min of talking. It went ok from there, I was pretty sure It was a sure lay, since she pretty much said she wanted me to come back with her... but when we were about to go... I actually pussied out... OMG i know. I am here because I NEED TO make those changes in my life, I dont anymore uncertainties anymore... I cant handle it, I am in constant doubts, fear, and depression. I made a pact with myself that If I am still a virgin by 25, I am gonna to fuck the first thing that moves... not something I am looking forward to do!

ManHoKing

Welcome to the Greatest Community, that will help you with this problem. I personally suggest you read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss, and then Introduction to NLP, and finally, My Secret Garden. It's what I've been working on as a aspiring PuA Good luck brother, and welcome to the Community once again.

I wish you luck, and if you follow the correct path this community will help you with more then picking up women.

Yours in the Game,

PurpleLight.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

Thankyou for your support

I am reading The game SPAM, and going through some of the most popular books in this field. I dont have any problems with understanding the theory e.g. the cognitive models etc, but It seems to me that implementing them in real life is WAY WAY HARDER. Also I am alittle gobsmacked as to how one would be able to f-close within a ridiculously short period of time. Like for example how is possible that you can get a f-close with a complete stranger within 10 hrs?? :O

Quite possible man, you just got to know how to play the Game, all I can say is it'll take practice, it'll be more then just a few months to learn how to do that. But, if you stay at it, and approach sets, and work on your game everyday, your looking at a month. I've been going on and off for the past two years, I have a fair understanding of the game now, and I'm not that half bad of a sarger, just need work on some areas. APuA, here. (Aspiring.) Got another year left till I'll call myself a Pickup Artist, because thats a title you earn.

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"He is in command of my actions and seems to
be the leader of the men." -The Secret Garden, Women Sexual Fantasies.

"“The best way to get the person you want is to not be afraid to lose them” ~Neil Strauss

Sounds like something sinilar to what I did, read but make sure you apply what you read so maybe something like 10 pages a night, then stop reading and just hit the forums and approach, set yourself a target like 5 a day. U will have to learn about rejection and shit tests but that's how I did it and it worked for me!