Ok so I have a little problem. I am not a virgin because I got lucky once or twice.

But my problem is that, I never tried as much as I got in college. I had a girlfriend in highschool and lost her. Then came to college. I was 17 when I joined in college. So I decided not to try. There were a few chances I could have gotten a girlfriend but I never knew where parties were etc. One I had a chance with and let my friend have her. Like she texted me where are the parties at and I showed it to my friend. Then be became friendly with her and made her his girlfriend for like a year. At the year of 18 I was still a virgin. When I turned 19 I lost my virginity. Then few months later I get another girl but we only go to the point of touching.

But I got lucky with that one because I was with a friend that same day and we took a few girls home from a party and made out with them. I never did ask their phone number.

But back to the subject in college. I am afraid of approaching girls randomly because I am scared that one of their boyfriends might attack me or if a friend first starts a conversation with a girl I can easily join in. Otherwise I have problems starting the conversation or getting them to even notice me.

I am also scared of rejection at the same time.


Next, Most girls I usually meet keep ending up in the friendzone because I do not know what to say etc some of the times to push it into a relationship zone.


My friend has told me tell them hi and try to get a conversation to continue and I am like that won't work. They just say hi back and keep walking. Anyone know any good tips or links to help me with all these issues.


I am currently living at the college dorm which isn't too far from the college. I can easily bring a girl to there. Only thing in the dorms I do not know where to meet other people there since they are all the way up in their rooms and do their own thing. Because next tip I need is to flirting tips to bring it further once in my room. I was told music. but I am not an expert on all the cool music out there.