Hey guys,

Im 22, and located in the south of the UK

I got into the game trying to be successful with the women who I want, but struggle to get.

I can get with women, but it tends to be on their terms, not on mine. I kind of "get what I can" not what I want.

I have been attempting differing methods for about 2 months, but with varying success. Sometimes its easier than others, tonight was a record disaster!

I have tried a variety of differing methods, again with varying success. I tend to mix it up, depending upon what suits me. David DeAngelos cocky funny works very well once introduced, but in a clubbing scene, the perfect introduction still eludes me. I do like the mystery method, but the apparent reliance on "magic" seems odd. Why should the mid game be dominated by ESP and "magic"?
A good answer to this would be appreciated, and how to execute this favourably with mates in a bar/club?

I am reasonably sporty, having played rugby at a decent level when I was younger. I am competent at tennis and badmington, and am beginning to learn the guitar. I like to try new things.

My goals are to be able to talk to, and then get with the girls I want. I would like to get with who I like, so I can see if the girl of my dreams really is what my fantasies crack it up to be. I dont want to be intimidated by women.

I have had a long term girl friend, but am looking to expand my horizons. Getting with average girls has not been a problem, but I would like to be able to get (roughly!) with who I want. All that said and done, I experience ALOT of rejection, it can get demoralising.

Help in the early and mid game would be appreciated. Mainly how to meet and impress women in bars and clubs.

Regards to you all,

so your looking for some material that bridges the distance between mm and dyd?
the good news is it does exist, it is dynamite (best book iv read on pick up and iv read a lot), and you can get it free.

its called 'magic bullets' by Sinn, its available on 4shared(.)com in pdf format

i reckon its the perfect blend of dyd and mm. almost all of my game comes from this way of thinking although i use some light nlp from a ross jefries book i read but not much cos its too much like hard work, im lazy. another reason i love this book, a whole group method is explained, i hate jumping from set to set all night.

where in uk you at?
looking to have a pua meet up in scotland sometime soon so pm me if your in guys.

Hey man, welcome to the MPUA forum. Nice to meet you, call me Lyrical or Dream or LD.

Anyways, seems like your motivation is to get pretty much any girl YOU want. Of course, that's a reason to join up the PUA scene. Don't do it for the wrong reasons of course. I do notice that you have enough confidence to pull some string but you lack the strength in persuasion, as remarked by your post.

Well, this tip I actually got from Mystery's show. It's good in resulting to get a specific girl to notice you;

When you enter the club, make sure the entire room NOTICES you. Don't overdo it though. Enter with a smile, playfully. Enter with a strict & strong body language, enter as you would call it... THE MAN! Say "Hi" to people with A SMILE, even if you don't know them.. it's working the room.

Search for the set where the girl is a part of.. first make sure you introduce yourself to the entie set, only then to her.. it's better to get the interest of the set into you, then her first.. why? Simply because you have better chance when the group likes you, then when they don't.

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Hey Guys,

Thanks for the welcome!

fifeguy86 - Thank you very much for the recommendation! I have heard alot about this book, but everything I find seems to be written by "Savoy", is same person as Sinn or is it a fake?

LD - Thank you for the tip, I think it is Group Theory that I need to improve on. If I am introduced to a HB then it is ALOT easier.

Regards

Sinn and Savoy worked together at time of writing, with savoys company love systems or something.

you can get magic bullets free on 4shared(.)com in pdf format altho u have to search for 'mystery method magic bullets'

hope you go download it now cos it will help your game to no end!
also ther is a good bit on group method in here,

enjoy and destroy

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