Hey Everybody! Wut up! I'm new to the forum from South Africa. Is there lots of Aussies and South Africans here? I'm guessing, but i think both countries have the same environment or "girl mentality" I lived in Canada and south Africa and if i compare, Canadian girls are more open minded and South African girls are more conservative in their thinking. A few weeks ago, i swear i was thinking that white girls were not into indian dudes, but then i started seeing so many interracial couples in South Africa. Not as many as you would find in Canada though. In looking around the world, europe and Canada seems to be the most liberal with this and dunno if it would increase my chances moving over there. But we have so much beautiful women here in South Africa!

So, i've been studying the material for 2 years...started out with the Game from Neil Strauss, came across the book by accident. Got completely hooked onto hit. I managed to overcome approach anxiety and now dealing with more serious issues like energy levels, contextual confidence, eye contact, congruency, sustaining fun conversation, number exchanges. I somehow struggle with the idea of "changing myself" to become more alpha in order to attract "any girl" All girls seem to think alike at a biological level. They all respond to the alpha male, whereas i'm a more sensitive, quiet & shy guy. I shouldn't sell myself as that hey! Really used to think at one point, it would work!

Recently, i just realized i have been delivering some canned routines succesfully and made a good first impression. Some girls (being impressed) said i was very brave walking up to a random stranger and then managed to flip the tables around, so that she is doing all the talking and interviewing me! I don't know if this is good or bad. Hoping to find some answers. I know the 90/10 rule, but i'm not a very talkative guy. Been struggling with number exchanges. Been giving my number out, but no calls. My theory now is that the timing is important to ask for the number exchange or maybe i didnt DHV enough before. Or perhaps i didn't display sexual intent as i'm usually an "under the rader" type of guy. Really thinking of trying more direct approaches going forward to experiment. Would love to hear and learn from all the gurus & newbies out there! Also looking for a wingman in South Africa committed to this lifestyle.