I'm from NYC and moved out here 2 years ago with my wife. So I'm back in the game after a 3 year marriage and I'm only 29 - married a trophy wife basically...easily an HB 9 or higher. Realized that I need more from a partner then good looks and finally got a divorce.
My top score is 25 (HB7's and above) since my first at 18 - a late bloomer, but obviously I stopped for the last 4 years....so I used to be ok and knew the game decently well. One of my best friends in college was majoring in PUA so while I didn't study myself I got some second hand tips and watched him work his magic.
So my style is the cocky funny, I'm pretty funny and arrogant by nature so it was quite easy to pick up....in fact it's more difficult for me to know when to stop or to not cross the line of being a dick. When I'm in groups, I can totally hold my own. I've been single for 2 months and going out on a pretty regular basis to some pretty hot clubs in LA (myhouse, playhouse) and I've been able to score numbers and get some tongue but I want my game to the point that it's every night and it's with the hottest girls. I'm pretty self-conscious and had a lot of self-esteem issues when I was younger, never knew my potential. I'm still very self-conscious and end up being way too nice. I am the epitome of Mr. Nice Guy and just like the nice guy girls love me...to be their friend. I lost my mojo and game since being married and it needs to get restarted, since I don't have the guidance of my friend I decided to do something about it myself.
I don't have any pick up lines, I can't muster up the courage to use them in fear of being cheesy or cliche. I just say "hey" or more likely start dancing with them, I do most of my damage on the dance floor where I'm pretty good. I neg them and maintain my cocky funny kinda attitude but I'm way too honest about myself and end up talking too much and revealing basically everything.....so there is no mystery left - at that point I totally lose confidence and realize that I've already either self-destructed or activated the sequence.
I have no consistency because my technique is not organized. I need some good openers and really need to work on the mid-game.....I can deal without a good opener and get by on looks and style but mid-game is HORRIBLE....mostly because I have a hard time remembering their names (I'm bad with names in general) and I end up repeating questions because I have nothing to talk about with them, I could care less about what they say most of the time.....I know the answer is easy....pay attention, but its easier said than done.
I mostly go to bars/clubs to pick up girls and I have zero, zilch, none, nada day game and WOULD LOVE to work on that.....mostly cause I'm not drunk during the day. Tough part is I work at home, so my only destination during the day is the gym during lunch time and the supermarket.
I wanna go out with some PUAs or those training to be and get some pointers, tips and tricks. Those that can help me do some prep work and help my analyze and rehearse and help me master the art and get organized. Like having a gym partner to spot you or pump you up for one more set.
Vlad
PS.: Should I come up with an alias? I really like my name, it's actually a decent opener because they all ask me to repeat it at least 2 more times.....thinking about it, it's probably been my opener and I never noticed.
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