Hey guys
im new of course. My biggest problem is motivation and that i thinki should just settle for a nice girl since i seem to meet a lot of friendly average girls but its because i think i should that i deny myself from approaching attractive girls.

HOW DO I BECOME A PUA!!!!! What do i have to pay, what do i have to read, learn or watch. Tell me because ive been in and out of the pua scene for a year because i lose motivation but now i am ready to learn.

Now i am currently living in hawaii surrounded by beautiful women that i would love to chat to and take there numbers!

One night one my best friends 21st we went to a strip club for predrinks... earlier that day i had just gotten a number off a work associate so the whole time at the strip club i was txting while my friends were practically making it rain. Sitting there by myself a women approaches me and ask me about my tattoo (i have a mix of japanese and samoan tribal tattoo which covers my forearm)

I explain where i got it and how much it cost.. she then ask me if i have a pen to take her number i reply with no i dont (cause really who carries a pen around all the time) i return to texting this girl from work (silly right?)

that lady by the way was originally sittng with another man which is why i blocked her off my radar but during the time of our conversation the man had dissapeared but at the end of our conversation he returns a few mins later.

the next 15mins i join my friends at the main strip part where the clothes are coming off and shes got 1$ bills stuck to her thigh. i am still texting then somebody taps my shoulder and its the lady from before she gives me a napkin that reads "hi my name is bev but people here know me as leilani call or text me NOW so we can hang"

i tottally ignore this and pass it to my friends to brag but return to texting...


see how sad that is... that i was given such a great oportunity to get to a girl but gave it up because well for one i dont think id touch a stripper and two i was texting some girl from work and we were still in the friends zone... how shitty..

i want to learn how to read signs and give them.

help me out !

I'm new also, same story here, great interactions with women all the time which lead
to nothing...patience, we'll eventually figure it out and be successfull. I'm trully convinced !

Where do we start?

I am not bad at picking up after a few shots of tequila but i dont want to be under the influence all the time to get there.

Im guessing with liquid courage im able to speak my mind and i understand the whole neg theory it was always part of my game before i even heard of it. Im not a major negger but i do like to neg in a way where were both laughing.

If i am able to pick up girls anywhere at anytime it would greatly boost my confidence with not just women but other aspects too.