Hey everyone,

So I'm Jabroni, 21 years old, in Massachusetts right now attending college. There's a lot that I know I should put into this post so I'm not sure where to start, so I guess I should start at the beginning. When I was younger (elementary school), I was very fat. Hideously fat. I got made fun of by girls relentlessly for it. In particular, my 7th grade yearbook has comments all over it calling me fat, ugly, and smelly. Yeah, juvenile, I know, but it seriously messed me up for years. I had horrible self esteem through high school and in some ways continue to have a low opinion of myself. However, I am not fat anymore. In fact, I'm actually pretty fit. I took up swimming in high school and now swim Division 1. I've also developed an unhealthy obsession with working out - I sometimes lift for 2 hours after my 2 hour practice. So my appearance is not my problem with women, it's definitely my approach. I read Neil Strauss' "The Game" over the summer just for kicks, and I was pretty intrigued by it. I am, without a shadow of a doubt, an average, frustrated chump (I guess what you would call an AFC, though I'm not much of an abbreviations type of guy). I've been told time and time again by girls that I'm too nice to date, and after witnessing those same girls get dicked by assholes over and over again yet still refuse to give me a chance because I'm "too nice," I have become very bitter to the point where I despise the female race. They are stupid. There's no other way to put it.

But that's not the point of this post. We all know that despite their stupidity we seek them, we desire them, which is why I am coming here for help. The main things that I took from my reading of the Game were concepts such as negging, peacocking, some openers, etc. Sometimes things have worked, such as when I did the "Five Questions" game at a party a few weeks ago. I was particularly intrigued by peacocking because it finally seemed to answer the question of why all of these Jersey Shore/Guido/Thug tools wearing upside down, sideways, visors and pink polo shirts with popped collars got so many girls. This summer I tried my luck with some aviator glasses at parties and I definitely got more looks, though the other night a girl blatantly told me that I looked like an asshole for wearing the glasses inside. I had zero interest in her and I am/was better looking so I really didn't care, but I think it just goes to show how frustrated I've become.

Oh yeah, to conclude this, even though I said before that I have a very low opinion of myself, I really shouldn't. In fact, I think one of the reasons I have become so frustrated is because of how much I believe I have to offer girls yet they fail to see that. As I mentioned earlier, I am a Division 1 athlete, and I actually am ranked #1 in my class of over 700 in college with a perfect gpa. I interned with the most prestigious accounting/investment banking firm in the world this summer. I'm not "average" by any means. Yet I continue to have zero luck with girls. Outside of some extremely random hook ups that were pretty much all instigated by the girl, I have no experience. I am in desperate need of help and I'm hoping that someone out there can offer me some introductory advice as to how I can get started. Since I am still in college, I think I am in prime position to test out some of these techniques, which is why I am here. Thank you for listening and I look forward to becoming part of the community.