| Probably need some advice/direction too, so hopefully a couple of you find the time to write up a response.
I'm 20 years old. I'm an introvert, but can be pretty out going at times too. More so with smaller groups of people, though - talking 3 or 4. Anything above that, I probably tend to quieten down. I've finished studying Public Relations and plan to further my studies next year in a similar course. I'd consider myself an intelligent, respect guy. However - I can't seem to get back to where I was maybe 2 or so years ago.
I've had two long relationships and have dated a couple of other girls. That all happened from 16-19. Whilst I never depicted the mirror image of an alpha male, I did pretty well with girls. Especially after I broke up with the girl I'd seen for 15 months. However, start of 2009 began my downfall. I had 3 big operations in that year on my legs, which has meant I haven't been able to play sport for a couple of years. It got to me, and my confidence levels have dropped significantly since then. It's reflected on my game, or now serious lack there of. Whilst my game was always more casual, it's got to the point where I can't even approach 'em anymore. I remember girls saying they used to find me interesting when they first came across me because I was quiet, but in a cool, calm and collected manner. It seems as though subconsciously I've listened to this and almost ignored approaching women. It sounds ridiculous - but coupeld with the other things, it means my confidence has plummeted.
My body is starting to get back on track, I've finished the PR course and am now after some work over the summer ... So thing's should be getting better. I've finally gotten over my first gf which took 3 years, even though I broke up with her. She kept kinda coming back, and it definitely head screwed me. I'm pretty confident that's all in the past, so I really want to concentrate on the future. I've purchased Neil's book of "The Game" and hope to get things back on track. For the past ... 12-18 months, I've been pathetic.
Where should I start and what techniques might be helpful to get back in the swing of things? I'm very much a guy who runs/fails on confidence, so if I do well - I'll grow in swagger dramatically. If I don't, could go the other way.
/End rant lol.
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