Hey, i'm Tom... 26 years old, mechanical engineer...

New to the community, read a few books, watched a lot of videos. I basically enjoy the "social analysis" of the situation. I'm pretty much a technical kind of guy because i always over analyze any situation... basically the engineering approach

Unfortunately that doesn't really work with picking up girls
I had a bunch of girlfriends over the years, but mostly girls i met through friends, i haven't been with someone i picked out in a club or bar ever...

Not really shy, i can always approach someone.. in clubs or wherever, but its the technical side of me over thinking every word that messes it all up... its like i'm playing chess, and not having fun with an attractive girl

But anyway, lately i realized... wait a minute, i'm 26 i really need to get my sh*t together so i'm gonna dedicate a bit of my time every day from now on to learning new stuff... and trying it out (which will probably be a bit harder that it sounds)