Alright hey everyone.
Im new, in fact im reading Neil Strauss's "The Game" for the past 3 days and its changing my life already

Iv suffered a lot in my early life, social anxiety, ocd, totally screwed me up.
But now im gettin it together, iv already grew some balls in the past 3 days.

I just wanna ahng out with people on here and share techniques for overcomeing shyness, kicking its fucking ass and going balls out not giveing a fuck.
In fuckin moderation though, small steps builds confidence.
Any other retards like me there?

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"Illusions only control you when you think they're Real"

WHAT UP! what up I go by Loose Lee. Also, in order for you to not give a fuck about what you do, you need to live a lifestyle. You cannot just "act" it in front of people if you don't mean it... Peace!

ya u just need to talk to girls, be social ask girls questions if u want to ask them something do it.

If u think of something you want to do, then do it.. if u don't do it and create an excuse, u will develop a habit of not doing things u want to do.

ex. You think in your mind that you want to ask the professor a question. But you are too shy and create an excuse to your mind that you can just ask your friend. This will create a negative affect and will result in more excuses for more situations. If u did ask the prof a question, by doing and not thinking, by not creating excuses and facing your fears...it will give u a nice confident feeling inside of you and will promote more dominant decisions instead of making excuses.

So if you do small things like that, keep doing what you want to do and not making excuses... then the next time you see a girl and you want to meet her, you will most probably not make an excuse and you will actually meet her. Its like a chain, keep doing what u want and it gets easier and easier .

thats just my 2 cents lol

This x10 times. Your brain records series of small actions you do/don't do everyday. And then it makes habits out of it. You are in control you can change that, but once you record a habit it just starts to play in specific situations and you act by it. So you need to change the record.

This is a step in a great new direction for me. I want to be able to enjoy Life and not be shy and do all the things I want to do. Im taking small steps but Ill get there.

Today some Idiot tried to give me attitude in class. I asked him a simple question on a math problem and I could hear it in his tone of voice. He was basically telling me fuck off. I straight up said,"wtf? Is there a problem?". He was like sorry, sorry with a little pussy voice. After class he offered to take my classwork to the the teacher. lol pwned

That's good. if you don't like something, just say it. Dont be silent chicken. People will start respecting you for that.