Ok I thought this would be a fun read! Last Weekend I went to a friend’s party and made a fool of myself. I been trying it with this girl for a week or so now, she is likes a vault so hard to break So... I saw her at the party we started talking etc... It was going rather well I thought. Then a few friends dragged me away for a while to have a few drinks. So an hour later I went around the club just talking to whoever I felt like meeting I started speaking to this girl she kept giving me IoI’s little did I know she was my friends Ex small world. I could tell she wanted me but I don’t go near my friends girlfriends or ex’s not my style more trouble than it’s worth.

After that I went back to my mates I was working the dance floor got a two numbers and I got a date this week. So now I was really drunk I went back to the girl I been trying to get all week but I was so drunk I started talking shit to her and I actually went in for a kiss and she pulled away I felt like a fool and a lot of people saw so after a hard night of making this club my own it went within seconds luckily it was late and most of the women left. Now if anyone wana help me out how do I redeem myself with her I’m not giving up on this one she is playing so hard to get and I will not take no for an answer.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

I am in no way an experienced PUA, but my best suggestion would be to apologize to this girl, make it sincere because women tend to hear a lot of bs apologies and usually dismiss anything that isnt genuine. as for the breaking the vault and getting this girl to open up what kind of routines are you using?

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be cool, but do not ever try to be cool
act like it never happened and go on having fun and loving life as usual
if anyone brings it up, say u were so drunk that u almost kissed a horse once, too!!! LOL
but since you started chasing her, the game is now over!
try hitting the reset button with her by living life as if she didn't exist, even when she is sitting next to you
the next time u see her, treat her as is she's not even a sexual option anymore
make a point of BLATANTLY ignoring her by talking to all her friends n people around her
let her see that you think she's crazy and the most socially awkward weird fucking person who ever walked the earth- but do it with a smile

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Thanks for the quick reply.
Well I been trying all different types of routines on different people that night cocky / funny was working on everyone but her she is so hard to speak to. As for ignoring her I saw her two days after I didn't even look at her I glanced and caught her looking at me I didn't say anything to her just carried on texting my friends.
She is different trust me on this not a typical good looking girl she is the piercing tattoo type of girl she intrigues me. Maybe this is why I want her so bad! I’m so bored of all these typical boring women that are good looking know it and when we start to talk she bores the hell out of me a want a challenge.

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The Edge... there is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over.

excellent advice on resetting everything. Also Im sure you have thought of this but next time you find yourself talking to her make sure she sees that at any point of the conversation you could walk away, make her work for your attention. Im sure you know what her interests are and stuff like that , you should highlight your common interests, not by blatantly saying it but infer so that she finishes out the conversation, you will probably be planning a day 2 after that.

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