Hey all,
Pretty much I am in my mid 20s and have a volatile self esteem (sometimes it'll be up and sometimes it'll be down). When I'm around attractive women that pay attention to me I feel great about myself but when something usually goes wrong I feel bad about myself. Some of you may know how this goes.

I'm of average looks, broad build, slightly overweight, work out 6 days a week to correct that, and can get along with almost anyone. I have an outgoing personality and can show people that I can have fun. I feel that my only failure in life up to this point is with women. I want to be able to go out on dates with attractive women (not necessarily supermodels) and have fun even if it is just for a night and not have to worry about the next day.

By no means am I using this as a form of therapy. I am looking for support and advice to help me along my journey to become a happier person in the relationship/dating/pickup department and appreciate everything in advance.