So, I'm 20 years old and from the UK. I'm now at the beginning of my third year at University and nothing has really happened for me here girl wise. I'd say that I've kissed about 8 woman, but their hasn't been any form picking up used by myself. I's either been the girl coming up to me (which has happened twice), or a wingman has just asked her for me. So basically, out of all I've kissed, I know the name of one of them.

A few weeks back, I decided that something needed to be done to fix all this so started searching online for things that could eventually help me meet and be able to approach women. In the end I came across 'The Game' by Neil Strauss and its given me an insight as to what I could achieve. I also came across the TV show 'The Pick-up Artist' and noticed that anyone can do it.

I enjoy sports such as Soccer and Pool and would probably watch others on the TV. I'm also into video games and can spend some times playing them. I also enjoy to watch television. And also watch quite a lot of movies. I go out usually one or two times a week with friends and we usually go to a bar and then head off to clubs. I wouldn't say that I feel uncomfortable in these kind of environments, but the thought of actually going up to a girl and talking to her is pretty scary.

And here's a story that happened a little while back:

I had a situation when a friend opened a 3-set but nothing came of it and we left to go to a different part of the club. Later that night, I'd lost my friend,went looking for him but found one of the three sets on her own and she'd also lost her friends. Got talking to her as I'd already met her, and decided to look for her friends with her. At this point, she was saying how nice I was and all this shit could either be an I.O.I or a "let's just be friends" thing. But later on, she was touching my arm and eventually asked for my number and also hugged me quite a bit. Now, if I'd read some of the things I have now, it might have been a different situation, seeing as I would've noticed the I.O.I's and know she was interested. But lacking this knowledge, I had no idea. It came across me when she's hugging "should I go for the kiss or what??" but in the end, nothing. I think the thought of rejection scared me too much and I just couldn't bring myself to do it.

I've decided to join this forum in order to better myself and I'd like to lose my virginity by the time I'm 21. Which is in about 8 months time. I know that I've got my work cut out, but I really want to make this happen.

So any tips or any questions you guys can give will be very appreciated.

Many Thanks!

P.S. Sorry this is a long post. Didn't know I had a lot to write