Hey all

I'm an AFC, 27, with plenty of ground to cover.

I'm had some serious relationships, fuck-buddies and the occasional one-night stand - but it's always a long time between dates, if you know what I mean. Looking back, I've been introduced to everyone I've ever been with by a mutual friend - I can't remember a single, straight-forward, successful approach.

Í've realised it's all about confidence, which I don't have a lot of. But since reading The Game I see that the more you go out and do it, the more confidence you get.

Í'm not sure if this is a faux pas, but I'm not interested in bedding as many women as I can. I respect women, I just don't want to fear them. I want to to approach, engage and attract with confidence.

That's where I need serious help. I've been approaching women during the day, like:

"Hi, bit of a strange question, but I just bought this tie and I don't know how it looks - what do you think."

While the initial reaction varies from perplexed to smiling, I can't get anywhere from there. I think I come across as desperate or too excited to get the attention.

Anyway, if you've read this far, thanks. What I'm hoping for is someone to school me on approaches, and then go from there. Like I said, I'm AFC putty in your hands.

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