Salut!

The past: till I reached 16 I was very successful with women, if you can call it that day. Enough to mention that I had a maximum of a month with one girl, then maximum 2 weeks without any girl and then the next (max) month instantly. But then something changed - I fall in love and got into relationship with one girl. Then I said to myself "No, this time I will be good for her, as a husband should" and we had enormous 2 years and wonderful next 3 years, 5 years in total. I did all the things to make her happy: visit her everyday, drive to her when she needs a transport, buy clothes, flowers, candies. Every weekend I stayed at home with her because I prefered to be close to her and not make her worry about me. In addition, she was so in love with me at the beginning that she cried almost for 2 weeks after the fact I had a short train conversation with her friend (yeah, so jealous - remember, at that point she is a teenager). But then, after 5 years, she acted like a bitch (literally) one time and moved to another city to study there so I decided to break it up. But one thing that stayed in my mind was her good-bye words "You were perfect, ideal". So, why the hell she has done that? It was October '09, I was 21.

Preparation: After 2-week, instant alcoholic string I decided to do something. Me and 3 of my friends went to my grandma's empty house and gone to the party. One had a girlfriend already, three of us found there some company for the rest of the night. We knew them for a maximum of 4 hours and never met them again. First flashlight: This is it! Where was I before? These 5 years had an influence on my mind and I needed to re-programme myself to the way when I was 16 and played a life, regardless of my bank account. Then, a God's Hand - a new subject in my studies: "Rhetoric". First lesson: Tricks in conversation. And here it begins: the rule of the pink elephant ("Don't think about the pink elephant with big ears, round head, sharp thorns etc.") and the other tricks I found very interesting. I shared my views with collegues and one of them said "google NLP" - next level, I found the differences between men and women, the way we think and so, then my other mate told me "google Style the Game". February 2010, winter holidays.

Present: I am Surielx, a 22yo working student from Poland. I am now on 4th year of law, will hopefully finish it by the end of 2012 and I work as a Pallet Administrator (some kind of boring) for 2nd biggest European company in its trade. I'm in pickup since I learned how to pee standing up, with a little (5-year) break during my relationship, from which I still need to recover and fully get back to who I was when I was 16 - plus the knowledge and experience I achieved within the last 10 months. I am definitely not new into pickup (not a nerd type, not "frustrated" in AFC) but I know I can achieve more. Since February I had this weekscheme: from Monday till Tuesday I was reading all the stuff I found interesting about pickup and at weekends I was examining the stuff I learned.

Methods: As many of you, I started with MM - I found that working, some things were eye-opening (like peacocking, the cat metaphore etc.) but I realized that I am not the type of guy who counts 1-2-3 sec. -> open -> 1-2-3 IoI's -> isolate -> comfort -> bridge + #/k-close -> comfort -> seduce = 7 hours. But still I use some of the aspects and I thinks this is the best way to get into pickup for nerds and total PU newbies. After MM here comes Style's Annihilation Method. Ok, thanks to this I started to change my lifestyle - dancing lessons (the best decision I have made so far this year), guitar, tantra, astrology, pub magic, gym, jogging, healthy diet etc. But, due to PU it was still MM. So I searched the net - Ross Jeffries, Steve P. and Hypnotica - after reading some stuff I stopped! No, this is the dark side of the force, with all the respect to these fantastic people it is not something that fits my personality. I admit, it works wonders but, the hell, I don't want to hypnotize a girl only to have sex with me! I had significant successes without it.
So here I am, after reading many of the PUAs books I found Vin DiCarlo natural game best fit for me, mixed somehow with Mehow's 10 second attraction (C&F style) but I am open-minded, I know that the stuff I learned before works but I found that there are 2 key factors to success: fit the methods to your personality (not the opposite) and be self-confident in what you're doing. The second thing is something I owe to MM, I had an AA while opening even HB5-6 at the beginning and now it is reduced only to 9s and 10s and in less amount.

Future: I do not aspire to be mPUA or so, I just want to have some fun with some gorgeous women. In 4 years I will be an army officer (2 years of studies, 3 months of break and a year training in barracks - I know that no one girl will wait for me for a year without having sex with anyone else, neither will I) so that I know that I have to wait with some serious relationship until my late 20's BUT by that time I want to eat the pip out of the fruit called life. And this is the purpose I am into this site, I will mostly post when I am at work (it's soooo boring in here but well payed and have an internet access) and I decided not to share with you my past field and lay experiences, I will only do the future ones.

And beware - all my posts will be the same lenght!

Salut!
Surielx.

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