| Actually it's ask three woman, not specifically hot, nor a specific age group. You could ask grannies, but they probably wouldn't give you relevant style information.
Here are some tips,
Step 1: Get Some Eye contact going, walk down a busy street, look people in the eyes till they pass you. Never break eye contact, but don't turn your head. If you see someone looking into your eyes and you catch it, fight that impulse to look away (I have that happen to me still).
Step 2: Get Random Conversations going with anyone. It can be small talk like, "How about that local sports team?" or "What's a good movie?". However you should quickly move into questions that you actually want to know or have specific interest in. Relationship advice, shopping and Celebrity gossip are exceptionally good. Just look around you and find things you find interesting, or want to know more about. And just ask.
For example right now I'm opening by saying, "Oh my god, did you hear? Justin Bieber has his own memoirs already! (In a dramatic style) Then ask them about their feelings about this. Then share your own.
Never fear initially being completely random, I mean how has not being initially completely random helped your love life?
Step 3, Mix the first two steps together. Don't break eye contact. If you feel you're staring, just body rock. Just turn your whole body like your about to walk away, take a step, shift your wait away, then step back and move into your original position, while still holding the eye contact the entire time. Never break eye contact the entire conversation.
Step 4, look for opportunities. In my experience girls don't do random when it comes to guys. If someone you barely know compliments your hair, you have some attraction.
If for any reason you think, "That was really weird why did that girl just do that" you have attraction. This happened to me, I was standing at the bus stop and a girl stood in my personal space in front of me. Opened her and it was the easiest number ever... At first I was like, why the hell is this girl standing here.
Think, is there anyone exceptionally nice to you, that you rarely talk to? Smiles shyly at you then looks away? Give them the time of day, you owe it to them. Even if they don't have a crush on you, you should still get to know them.
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