| As the title says, I am currently in Boston for school. I am 25 and never really put much thought into studying and practicing pickup. I always thought that it was nothing more then snake oil in order to make some money off some chump. I never really had problems with getting laid or having girlfriends, in fact upon retrospect, even though I was able to have a girlfriend or get laid, I never had any game. Well, I wouldn't say no game. I just have a fear of initially going up and talking to a girl. I just don't ever know how to open. My openings were always opened by someone else. Like an alcoholic, the first step to becoming better is admitting you lack a sack, and I lack the stones to approach women.
In fact one of the reasons why I am here was because I have recently become separated from the girl that I love, who I have been with for 7 years. Not discussing my relationship any further, I had a friend who recommended that I read The Game. Reading this book became cathartic. Page by page, my pain of loss was slowly going away. And when it does come back, I just read a random chapter again and it goes away. I began to remember that she isn't the only girl out there and that I need to sack the fuck up and move on. Now is the time to better myself as a person both physically and mentally.
So, here I am. I am looking to learn how to pickup on girls at any random place or time. Not for revenge of what happened between my ex and I, not for having a slave or anything like that. I do love women and do care for them. I want to learn how to pickup on women in order to better myself as a person, just how learning how to be a PUA helped Style in not only his sexual life, but affected all of his interactions with everyone around him. Hopefully I learn a lot from these forums and look forward to meeting you all.
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