Hi

Couldn't really find anywhere to post my question but it kinda falls into some of your area's and well us girls only have really sad relationship forums lol. I want a proper guy opinion .

Ok so im in a relationship with a guy have been a year or so when we met he was married now divorced !! (not the best start I know). Well basically all is good there in fact its great in everyway BUT i met a girl on the internet who I cant help but want she's gorgeous and well im soo intrigued I've never done this whole meeting some-one on the internet thing, but I think if I met her and anything happened then it would probs end things with my boyfriend.

Two questions:

Do I go for it anyway?

Would you object to your GF sleeping with another woman?

How do I know she's exactly who she says she is before I meet her?

Thanks

> "How do I know she's exactly who she says "

You don't.
I always wondered how a girl/woman, sometimes being that careful that she is afraid talk to neighbor is jumping into deep water with strangers.

You maybe search on google and learn how to be careful with internet new friends.
In fact each policeman can give you some hints.

I myself was not in such situation. For me case would be completely different if you would sleep with her exclusively and if I were with you two.

Have you talked to your boyfriend about this? Open communication is one of the most important pillars of a healthy relationship. If you feel like you have to hide certain parts of your personality or keep certain sexual desires to yourself to keep him happy, you guys are probably not going to work out in the long term anyway.

Besides, I would be legitimately shocked if he raised any serious objections to you exploring your interests in the fairer sex, particularly if you involved him in some way.

But if by some strange twist of fucked-up male logic he does have a problem with it, and this is something you're 100% sure you want to do, then you know right away that this guy is not the one for you. Nobody who insists a person be anything but themselves in a relationship is right for the person they are imposing their will on.

Either way, you'll never know unless you ask.

Your boy,
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