Ok, so I'm in kinda of a special situation. I've got a girlfriend and she's great and we're about to be in a threesome with another girl who straddles the fence between an 8 and 9. I should be feeling pretty lucky, right? But that's the problem, this was all pure luck I am the last human being on the planet this should be happening to. The very last.

Let me explain, before my current(and first) girlfriend, I was the very image of a chaste virgin. Pretty much for most of my life I was the fat kid who glared at his shoe laces when talking to girls. I had few (I could count them on one hand) female friends and any attempt to hold a conversation with a girl ended in tragedy. I was 16 before I looked a girl in they eyes who wasn't related to me. Things were so bad that I just gave up trying to get anywhere with girls.

Then a miracle happened. A genuine God damned miracle. One of my female friends became attracted to me. She liked the awkward, nerdy guy. Yay, right? Two problems A.) She's into chicks. Exclusively. B.) At that point I assumed by default that there was not a female on the planet who'd could possibly see me that way. So I just treated her like a bud. This girl went out of her way to show me that she was into me, but I was just so fucking clueless and certain that no woman, especially not a lesbian could possible be attracted to me. The girl got fed up and just asked me out and of course I jumped on board. Later on I got my ass into shape and even packed on some serious muscle.

But despite all of that, I haven't changed in the slightest. I still can barely hold conversations with women and I can't even look my waitress in they eye.

The nature of my relationship with my girl allows us to bring in other women as long as we share them. She's brought two (the first one bailed though), I've brought nil. But to be honest I was pretty complacent until the second girl. She's my girl's best friend and one of my sister's oldest friends. I've been told this is pretty stupid, but the girl is absurdly hot. I don't fall to pieces around good looking women, but this girl is different. She planted the idea in my girlfriend's head and when she tried to get me to bring it up around me, it was like she had me under a spell. I've seen her do this before, both to women and men and it's amazing to watch. Not so great to have it done to you. I spent the next two days thinking I was in love with this girl until I realized what she did. A few years back she introduced me to The Game and informed me of the PUA community. She's been practicing this stuff for years and now she's like a technician, a surgeon of emotions. After she got what she want, I wouldn't say she iced me out, but the ball was in my court so to speak. So I tried to fire up a conversation and I floundered as violently as you could imagine.

Now she's still on board, but it's my girlfriend keeping her interested. And while I don't mind watching them make out in my back seat I don't want to be left out indefinitely. Beyond that I want to be able to handle myself around women without either making a fool of myself or acting like an android.

Beyond that I've got a friend whose in the exact situation I'm in, sans the lesbian girlfriend. I gave him The Game and even threated violence to get him to read it. I even sent him out with another friend of mine (this dude is the definition of a natural), but he just used my bud to make himself look better. I'd like to be able to act as a good wing man for him and help him get laid.

That's why I'm here. I want to be able to talk, flirt and generally carry myself around women. I want to get my relationship's third wheel genuinely interested in me and I want to help my boy get laid. I'm going to start going out and talking with random women ASAP, but I'm also hoping to learn (and apply) as much as I can from here.

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Few things are harder to put up with than the annoyance of a good example.
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