Hi all,

I'm an Indonesian working in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. I'm under 30, know nothing about "The Game" book you're all talking about, but would like to know more.

I like women. Heck I was quite a PUA back in Jakarta. But things don't go well in KL, mainly due to language and religion problem (I think). I've been staying here almost a year and I haven't scored any girl (I only went once to club here, go figure).

My goals in joining this forum is mainly to meet fellow PUAs, wingmen maybe, to learn a thing or two about things in KL.

I like photography, primarily landscape.

Btw, a couple of days ago I created a thread in a Malaysian forum, asking "how relationships work in Malaysia." and I got some good responses. I can't give you the link since I'm new in here (less than some amount of posts can't post link?). But in essence, it covers some things:
- Is it true that Chinese girls are more conservative, especially toward non-Chinese speaking guys?
- Can I safely approach Malay girls?
- Why Indian girls doesn't seem to be attracted to Asian guys?
- What are you suggesting to increase my odds?

The thread gives some insights about local girls, but does not cover the most important idea (how to score, of course), that's why I'm here

I recommend finding some forums that discuss dating in Malaysia specifically. When I was in Thailand I found a ton of them - I learned how to recognize and avoid the "working girls" and "lady boys" and good places to meet local girls. English speaking tourist areas are great and the girls were all very friendly. Learn about some of the local culture in Malaysia and some key phrases, but in most places you can stick to English and get by just fine. I think a huge part of it is just having the confidence to approach a lot of girls and then read their signals and know when they are interested and when to back off so you know when to escalate. Good luck!!