Hey so I've only been reading this forum for a week now and I immediately go out and test the things I've read here, and I must say, these tips works wonders! Everything about this forum is so useful, it's probably my favourite forum on the internet!

I want to thank every member on this forum for being a member, because we can learn from every good or bad contribution.


Anyways, I have a question to ask since I'm not sure what search keywords would bring me back unique results, and I've read every forum category but none have something relevant to this:

How do you cut a babe slowly without offending her or having her felt played?

The question I ask is I think I tried too hard on one of these, which looks like it's going to be an f-close tonight, but I'm worried if she wants to stick around to seriously date. After our initial f-close, I want to stay FWB at most, with little interactions after since I'm busy. Any tips?

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DipT
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for an outright cut off ,i usually engineer that she dumps me---ive found acting needy and calling and texting AFC works wonders but if you really want her to run for the hills tell her you love her this is especially effective if you dont know her that long,but be warned this can also be diasasterous if the subject is a psyco girl

That's the thing I'm looking to keep her around around as a FWB, rather than a one nighter. Also I'd feel bad if I cut her off completely (is having sympathy a bad thing for a PUA?) If I get enough FWB in inventory, I can cycle between each one and have a different lay every week!

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DipT
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well you could invent some story that you are very busy but dont have much time--and see her once every 10 days

Just tell her out right you are currently not in the right frame of mind for a serious relationship, bad break up w/e blah blah blah, but you want to keep seeing her... blah blah blah...

Well, Sympathy can be bad for a pua, just remember why you became a pua, did any of the women who fucked up your head have sympathy for you ? hell no.... but just remember the golden rule you need to leave a girl better than you found her...

that's true, i live by that golden rule anyways.

so i just f-closed recently (thank you this forum!).

i was too drunk, couldn't keep it up or finish even though im in my early-mid 20's. had some pretty dark beer so my head was killing me too. she told ME that she would be okay if it was just a one time thing. I told her how about go for a rematch when i'm less intoxicated. FUCKKKK

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DipT
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Dude thats awesome. It's inspiring to know that you can be just starting out and still have success. Kudos to you man!

In regards to your FWB question, I think it's not that difficult. If you score, keep going out with her and talking to her, but not too often. Stay busy and keep meeting other girls. If the question comes up, just tell her honestly that you really like her and enjoy spending time with her but you really don't want to be committed right now. If she keeps pressing for a commitment or says she won't sleep with you anymore then tell her you just want to be friends and be prepared to move on. Keep looking for and dating other girls. Eventually this will become a draw and she'll try harder, including sleeping with you, to get what she wants. Just be sure to stay honest with her and don't lead her into thinking you want to be committed. She'll either be cool with it, or she'll get mad when you honestly answer the questions she doesn't really want to hear (like if you're dating anyone else or sleeping with anyone else). If it gets to be too much, be prepared to stop sleeping with her because if you keep up this way for too long it can get messy or you might wind up with a psycho, but a lot of girls will be OK with that for quite some time if they're not meeting a lot of other quality guys they want to sleep with.