Hi everyone, im 21yo, and from VIC. I'm a art student studying in animation. There seems to be a few aussies posting here in the last couple days. thats great in a way.

I actually used to be okay at luring girls throughout my teens, even though i went to an all boys school. In those days id meet girls either on the net, or through friends.

from the age of 13- 17 i had 5 girlfriends, all long term and sexual, So i never had the need to really go out and meet new woman.

But now im 21, bored out of my fucking mind, shy, without a gf since i was 17, and i havent been laid in a year.

I'm completely shy around anyone that isnt a friend or family member. It just sucks, and i've had enough of not living my life the way i want it. I know i can be better than this. I started reading Strauss's 'The Game' last week, which i'm sure alot of you have. I've found it has opened my eyes alot more, and i'm only 80 pages in.

I know i've got alot of problem areas. Im shy and introverted; i lack confidence and motivation, i dont know/remember how to use my body language to attract woman, and im rigid and nervous towards women. I know i need to improve every aspect of myself and my life and i'm coming here for advice.

I'm here to listen and learn, share stories and help others, while taking what ive learnt out and into my life.

Thanks for hearing me out,
Rom