So, I picked this girl up from Bed Bath and Beyond. We go out on a couple of dates and have a good time. We text, talk on the phone, blah,blah, then all of sudden she stops returning my calls and texts. What's up? I'm thinking she met another dude or something. She is a mom and 18, so, I'm thinking she's busy or whatever.

What should I do, if anything? I didn't try to kiss her or anything since I was a little uncomfortable that she had a 18month old kid and she's 18, I'm 28.

Should I text and ask her why she hasn't called me? Or at least say hope you're doing well, she was hot, the only reason why I'm still hanging on.

Thanks,

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The problem is you went on a couple of dates with her and haven't even kissed her yet. Chances are that if the kid bothers you she could somehow read that as well. Personally, I love MILF's, so I have no qualms about it.

Now, the fact that you didn't kiss close her on the first or second date tells me that you didn't build up a sexually charged relationship with her. Sounds like with every date and every passing moment you were putting yourself into the friends zone. And if another guy came in there and stole the show you will easily be pushed out of the picture.

The best thing you can do is wait AT LEAST 7 days, if not more and then what you should do is send her a text (not phone call if possible) and say this:

I'm soooo sorry. I didn't realize it but I blocked your number. On top of that I've been totally bogged down with work and friends. Anyways, I think my cell is okay now. Have a good one.

This message is very casual and makes it seem like YOU are the one who hasn't been contacting HER. See how it flips the whole perception of things? Plus I threw in a few DHV spikes by saying that you have been busy with work and friends. Finally a nice katana blow with the super casual ending like this all just ain't a big deal. I have pulled girls back from the dead with this. Give it a try.

hi diablo in this situation i recommend that you finish it because she clearly saying she not intersted in you at all and her way of not telling you is to ignore your text's or phone calls so if i was you i totally delete her and find another gal to have a relationship with

hitch2010