Hey guys.

I'm Bob. I am a 27 year old virgin and have hugged maybe 3 girls in my life not including my mother. Pathetic, I know. But I'm here to get this area of my life handled!

I've studied inner game, and fixed my posture and my self-talk or self-language has changed from "women don't like me" to "lets see if this one is cool"

I have a pretty damn powerful voice for a little guy (Im 5'3). People tell me ALL the time that I should be an announcer or speaker. I've been in toastmasters for years. I don't really experience the heart pounding anxiety on approach, UNLESS I have a crush on a girl there.

I'm still a flubbing idiot. I have had successful day-game flirts with women but WILL NOT CLOSE. I have had women APPROACH and INTRODUCE THEMSELVES TO ME! and I still don't see it. I go "Nice to meet you, I'm bob" Then I think, now what the hell do I do?

I've canned most stuff from Mystery Method and boiled it down to something a little more simple that seems to work.

Attract her though body language, posture, voice, DHVs, or BSing with others. Qualify her. Show some interest in her. Is that how it goes?

Great... Well, I will get this handled with help and advice from other PUAs interested in improving with women

Hey bob, Have you learned any other content then mystery's? A good video to watch is gamblers stealth seduction. I'm new to but i found it usefull. I don't seem to have trouble attracting women but I'm horrible at closing the deal. I mainly focus on teasing and deep eye contact seems to do the trick, and of course keno keno keno

Don't forget AFC Adam.

Good luck!

Hello Bob. Nice introduction and I think I can say that everyone here has been horrible with women atleast once in their life. Therefore I can freely say I'm pretty bad aswell, eventhough I do know a thing or two.
As for the negativity? Please keep it to your introduction and don't SHIT on yourself again, EVER. The key is to start with self-improvement, turn up the confidence a nodge. Don't forget that YOU are the man and women...well they'll always be women, right?

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Optimistic?

Hey Bob. Welcome! I'm new here too but I've been studying this stuff for almost a year. If you stick with it, you WILL improve dramatically. Good luck.

Thats ok my friend, we all have to start off somewhere.