Setting: a sitting 3-set at a sporting event.
I was with my friend. He was married and wasn't there to pick up.
A great looking girl and her two friends sat behind us.

Eventually, I overheard one of them mention a place 1,000 miles away where I used to live that she'd visited for the summer.

After a few mins, I interrupted them by turning around and asking, "Which one of you mentioned the Hamptons?" I asked the one in the middle; I ignored my target who was on the right. The conversation lasted about 3 mins, then I ended it by telling them my friend had to leave. My friend and I then walked away. So, I didn't progress past an attempt at an intro. The extent of my knowledge is reading Neil Strauss's The Game and watching PUA videos on YouTube.

My friend said I appeared nervous in my mannerisms and by not maintaining eye contact. He was unfamiliar with the PUA scene and thought it was bold to jump into the girls' conversation.

I felt pride for taking my first step away from my comfort zone.

Wwould appreciate feedback from more experienced PUAs.

Cheers,

JK

When engaging a set of any number you should always body rock. body rock means while she/they speak turn your head and lean your body a bit back than resume your position and talk to her. Why to do that? cause it will give the sensation that you could leave any moment and that hey need to DHV to you.

And at the beginning always talk over the shoulder than while you engaged the conversation, (after you did your opener) simply start slowly turning into a decent position since if you will talk ONLY over the shoulder it would make you a freak O_O. And aways keep eye contact.

Regards,
Mr. H aka. Bull

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Thanks Mr H! As I read your response, it reminded me that I saw Mystery use the technique you described. He always seemed on the verge of leaving and definitely leaned back and would actually leave a set for around 30 seconds.

How do you balance good eye contact with looking slightly disinterested?

Eye contact means you give them DHV. It means that you are only in for a simple talk and that you are not shy to talk to them, that you are not a "nice guy" either a freak, with a big smile on your face it means also you are funny, interesting and worthy of keeping. I don't really know how to explain more than this because I don't have that much of an experience but just do it and with the proper game u'll be in that set in 1 min.

Neg-ing + giving them the sensation of "the guy they never met before" would be the thing your looking for. What makes you special from the other guys that approached her before you? Do that!

ex:"give me your hand, this is a trust game, don't worry this is the best you'll get"
do cold reading to +dhv yourself and feel her slightly uncomfortable and do jokes about her hair:"is this the best you can do with your hair? it looks like a nest of owls, everybody keeps staring at it ". do jokes about her: find something situational for example lets say she DHV'd herself saying that she's a PRO dancer:"i bet you can't dance, in fact you'd probably step on my feet "

best story to tell:"I live my life with no regrets, if i'd turn the time, i'd probably do the same things i did before just to have fun again. Its best in life to try anything............ ofc there are limits and barriers. Now i'm not saying i'd go and have sex with a guy just to "EXPERIENCE" it , neither do you... you're you don't seem that fun" This way you DHV not only yourself, you also neg her, you make yourself look interesting to "ACHIEVE" for a women and she will want to DHV over you, to prove she is better than you. It's simply the competitive spirit between 2 humans ^_^. We all try to do that, it's normal, but it's more important to prove ur a Alpha Male when talking to her

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