Yep, as the subject states I'm a 30 year old virgin. I'll admit to being overly shy and awkward up to a few years ago, but I think I've been steadily coming out my shell ever since. I'm starting to approach women. The opening is my biggest hurtle. I figure feeling comfortable doing it lies in repetition. As for the times that I've been unsuccessful so far, I think back to falling on my ass skateboarding until I got it right (hurt so bad!) or trying to do flip turns over and over in the pool until it finally kicked in.

For being a virgin, I feel I'm good looking. I've lost a lot of weight after hitting the gym and developing a running routine two years ago. I think I'm pretty intuitive and respond well to people's moods. I can carry conversations and make people laugh. I have a bright future in front of me. I work closely with a world renown figure at the top of their field. I'm respected in my industry for my role. Women within my industry have invited me out and enjoyed my company, but I haven't been one to use my position for romance or sexual gain.

So far I've read Doc Love's The System. A lot of really good points, but I don't buy into the 50-51% percent Interest Level scale; it appears relative. Starting to read Robert Greene. Anyway, I would like to lose my virginity because I think sex would be fun and healthy. I have made out with a couple girls before and have been heartbroken over a oneitis, so I guess you can say I'm cognizant of a process. I'm taking it one step at a time. I hope to share my progress and receive good insight.

Welcome! you'll find alot of very helpful information on here. I'm happy to hear that you're working on this critical part of your life style. it is definitely worth it and very rewarding!