Lads,

After 10 years with my GF, I'm back in the game. Daunting and somewhat terrifying, but that's life, and you've gotta put yourself out of your comfort zone to move forward.

I've been reading a lot of material: David DeAngelo's Double you're Dating, heaps of blogs from stumble upon, and I've just picked up Neil Strauss' "The Game" which looks really comprehensive. So basically, I'm working on my inner game but the outer game is what needs the most work. At the moment I'm all theory and no practice, but that's going to change.

I've always been pretty good at creating the initial attraction, but closing the deal has been woeful to say the least, and after being out of the loop for so long.... I'm pretty much starting from scratch.

So wish me luck, I'm going in but I think it'll be baby steps to start with.

Cheers.

Good-Luck and hey, If you were in a relationship for 10 year you must have been doing something right.

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Manipulation is such a strong word... I prefer persuasion.