Hello. I'm in and around the Buffalo area and am new to all this. I'm in my 30's and well shall we say, we need to "try a little wrong, dog" as the line goes from "40YOV"...

I haven't gone out on premeditated "Sarges" yet, but have applied what I've learned spur of the moment starting with Strauss' book in order to get out of AFChumpdum. I consider myself in remission--but strangely have been doing bits and pieces of game without even knowing it at the time. For instance, the push pull seems almost natural and I'm naturally "cocky and funny" around women I think I have no chance with and was finding that I would get chances them only to squander it all with my "nice-guy" AFC'isms that immediately kill any attraction or send one straight to LJBF land most of the time, which is why I guess I've found the community). But I'm getting better even when I'm doing everything I shouldn't be such as drinking too much and trying to use AFC-friends as wings. I'm far more confident and seem to have modest success but I guess I need this last little push to get me over the cliff and put it all together...

Regards