Hello MPUA

I'm only 16 years old. And I know this forum does not apply to me, but please hear me out.

I started by reading The Game by Neil Strauss, and without even completing it, I went & tried some of the suggestions inside the book. I think I am at page 198 or something.

I changed from a socially awkward penguin to one fly dude that's loved by everyone.

Today, me and 2 friends were sitting in a coffee shop, when we saw this lady that was easily a 9/10. She was blonde, slim, had nice curves, and had this energy around her that no one dared to approach her. My friends told me I would never dare to talk to her. This made me pissed. So I stood up, went over to her & took of her sunglasses & pointed with them at my friends.

"See those two dudes over there? They think you're beautiful"

- She starts giggling

"I however, think you look average. I mean, you're wearing a skirt that you could used as a tablecloth in some kitschy Italian restaurant!"

- She was shocked

"Listen Isabel (I just named her some dorky name). What else do you have to offer besides your looks? Your looks ain't doing it."

- She: "But, but..."

"I'm going over to my friends, and I'm going to give you 3 minutes to think of something"


And I walked of, smiling at my friends, while she was completely shocked.
Three minutes go by, and there she is. With a paper in her hand.

She hands me the paper with her number on it. And she calmly tells me that she could show her other traits tomorrowmorning over coffee. And that I should call her.

My friends were stunned
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Was this good? Did I do something wrong? Should I call her?

Can I ask you a question?

Are you using PUA to conceal your identity? Are you not confident with who you are as a person? Is there someone who is telling you that you are not good enough? Or has your past experience alone led you to believe this?

Sorry to be so "opera" but I'm trying to figure something out, and I could use your help.

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Walk Hard

Good question.

I am and always was a very confident person. I just didn't knew what to say in conversations with women. I always was the gentleman that would hold doors open (still do actually) & comfort women in relationship problems. Causing me to always fall in the friendzone.

I also always expressed interest from the beginning, and sometimes I would spill out my emotions. Causing them to lose interest in me.

So I tried this approach, and mind that I did it in a playful manner, whilst building kino & laughing with her.