Im 20 years old and I have no confidence what so ever, I was pretty much picked on for 5 years or more, So I didnt really have much of a social life, Now Im tone I have friends but the lack of confidence is getting to me

Im from chicago and my friends usual tell me that I have great looks now and know how to make ppl laugh pretty damn well.

I just cant be aggresive i think.

If anyone could give me advise, I try to use neg but I just cant keep a convo following, I always hear that one girl thinks im cute or think im hot, but when i try talking to them on facebook or in person they keep the convo small and try talking to someone else even the my body lanuage is facing a group of ppl and not only her.

Any help would be great online and in the field. thanks