Got into the game via david Deangelo never ordered anything but i got the general idea from his website about cocky funny, body language, etc... after that i went out and failed a lot, my friends were getting laid and hanging with really hot girls i was a AFC reading into PUA not doing quite as well as my buddys. I got back into the game via, neil strauss, the game actually got a girlfriend and have recently broken up, hence the need for inner game. Never had solid confidence, kind of like mood swings but the thing that goes up and down is my confidence.

Holla if you went through the same shit or just to chat

Dosh

Everyone's story is unique Superdosh but...

I started out like you via reading online pick-up articles by David Deangelo,Swingcat,Thundercat,Mystery,Mehow,etc.I became great at PU via reading their online articles. I still have minor troubles of course-nothing is perfect.

Inner game-my favorite part of game after female psychology.

IMO,Inner game comes down to testing yourself.Subjecting self to uncomfortable situations,out of your elements,forcing self to get used to it and master the uncomfortable to become confident in any situations.

Example:

I used to be scared shit to go to socials,clubs,bars,etc. unless I was with friends.

I fought that inner insecurity by forcing myself to go to bars alone. I felf uncomfortable first few outtings then I gradually mastered being out alone socializing with strangers.

Point is;you have to subject yourself to your fears in order to build your confidence up.

Years ago before I studied social mastery(pick-up),I was 1 of the many weird looking/acting guys in clubs hiding off in a darkened corner hoping not to be seen.

Nowadays(lol),Im 1 of thee only guys in clubs and bars hi5ing the bartenders,hyping up the joint with my lively-alpha energy.

I no longer hide off in the corner.I make myself the center of attention by speaking loud a dominant/light-hearted.When I approach the bar,I now bore through the hottest girls and throw my hands over their shoulders to excuse myself and order my drink.

At the bar,I used to wait in line in order to order drink.Now(lol),I go ahead of people(not like a dicc head but confidently)and shout out,"All cool people to the front".The say to the HB's playfully in line,"Are yall cool enough to be in the front with me"?

That's strong inner game at work opposed to the betaish me years ago.

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thats really cool that you went out on your own and did that, im sure it took a lot of courage to get out on your own and try to pick up women. i will take your advice, and go out this weekend with what you said in mind sounds like the right thing to do for the kind of situation that i am in.

Hey Man.

If you're good looking but still struggling, then know this: Women are horny. Seriously horny. I didnt believe it either, but its true. They dont necessarily put themselves out there verbally like guys do, but they are waiting to pounce. They just want a safe, decently attractive, non axe-murdering guy to roll around with. If you dont believe me, just bring up sex with a girl you "think" likes you. She'll probably jump your bones...

Looking back, Ive missed out on a lot of fun times with women cause I thought they were being nice to me cuz they wanted to be my friend. Im an idiot.

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SoCo

That sounds a lot like my school situation, I see a ton of girls all over the place, talk to a lot of them, but sleep with none of them. I'll take that into my lunch and after school hours for the girls i am already talking to regularly.

Thanks for the post!

Great point Soco-but that's already known in the community that women are undercover freaks who ecrtly enjoy sex more than men.

Could yall believe this,I'd never spoken with a girl about sex and she didn't want to talk about it.

Im always the one to snip it by saying,"Hey do you always talk about sex with strangers and come on to men so strong[with a smile on fce of course]"? That question stirs them up to think,why doesn't this guy want to talk more sex.Am I not sexy or is type"?

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Ive been talking to a girl for a while and i got hints that she liked me but i could never get her alone, and when i did i just tried to make her laugh and like me cuz im funny rather than getting to brass tax. All i did was i got her alone and i told her that she was really cute..... she jumped my bones, and she's taking me to the movies today, awsome!

i got the same shit bro im still in high school nd i always hav lik huge boosts of confidence den lik the next week i feel like shit its weird.

Yeah man, I agree with K-loc. The only way I can say I've ever made any progress (even just socially) is forcing myself to go out there and do it. I developed thicker skin somewhat quickly by not viewing things as "failures" or "successes", but rather experiences that help me grow as an individual. I really hope this was helpful and I'm not just spouting off.

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i hope this reply helps

i have done some research myself and i have found that inner game is the best game to have. i dont like sifting thro the details i like getting right to the point. all of the pua stuff and david d stuff is centered around is, are you a man? cause that is what women look for. the man that knows what he whats. another thing that attracts a woman is when you are at peace with yourself and accept yourself for who you are and embrace it. in addition, what is the best version of yourself that you can think of and really admire. once you have that image. follow it and capture it. once you have become that image, women will come to you.

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Thanks Foxxy Daddy, Ive been slowly building confidence via going out on y own and just approaching people im feeling pretty good but still not where i want to be but this website your post help out a lot