The first thing to be a PUA in my humble opinion is a attitude if you confront your targets with the following emotional movements:
1)Depression - I so lonely, I just need some one to understand me...
2)Desperation - O God I hope this works its been so long since I've been loved...
3)Anger - This better work or that B*tch is going to get it!
4)Lust (out of control) I just can't wait I will do any thing or settle for anything.
Helpful emotional movements are to meet women have proven for me to be:
1) Playful - Lets see if this woman can take a joke, better yet will she laugh at my jokes!
2) Learning - What ever happens here with the this woman she is practice for the next one. Where I will know more.
3) Screening - Lets see what what she has going for her other then her looks. I want to find out if this woman is a flexible giver or a structured taker ASAP.
Don't deny your scenes if you see a lot of red flags hit the door first its a good rule in a set (talking with a women with the intention of seducing her) or a romantic relationship of any duration.
Also I had a post on the 3 Cs you might want to read.
I apologize if some of the reference are slightly out of context but the meat of the post should be helpful:
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keep hunting get numbers get others women in the picture. Don't take her out on the weekends. She has to earn that privilege and if her actions aren't reflecting a women with high interest level you might be lacking on the 3 C's around her:
Confidence - Have other women in the background that are better looking then her will provide a whole lot of this. Personally I like to have 6 numbers on hand and be dating a least 2 women. That way if the number one starts acting wrong you can pull pack and focus your attention on the good girls.
Control: Self-control, discipline, self-respect patience. "I will go this far for you and no further. I like my self 2 much to be you your play thing. If you have a problem with that there is the door. Let me help you pack."
Challenge: I don't text message ever. I want to see her body language as often as possible. I have found women speak the truth more with there body then there mouth The phone is used to get to her front door only. Be elusive DON"T CALL HER AGAIN. See how long it takes for her to pick up the phone and get in touch with you. This will answer your question to crystal clarity what her interest level in you REALLY is not what she says it is.
Good luck. Remember your trying to RAISE her interest level higher then yours.
Play on,
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