Ok let me start off here a young man, I”m in my teens, i see myself as the AFC transformed, i just recently joined this website and I have to say its Absolutely amazing the things that have changed me on this sight. this place is "The Shit".
After I read every article, a couple chapters in the game and checked out some other sites, in one night i re-imaged myself, i found myself becoming the alpha-male i couldn’t wipe the smile off my face all day, i soon started driving myself crazy, i knew about something not many men knew about the woman mind.
I Realized
I Could Have ANY Woman I Want.
And it stuck in my head i felt amazing.
BUT That's enough of the me now, let me explain to you what i USED to be in the course of 2 years...
I Was your average AFC, yep, knew nothing, had only dated one girl, never kissed a woman, Treated Woman with this OVER-RATED Respect. More than others. It Sounds ridiculous to this site right now, but yeah that's how it was.
Let Me Start off with a story in the back of my head. I met this girl right after recovering from some tough shit in life that had me down. And She Changed it, she was the innocent young girl wouldn't hurt a soul in her life, and she never judged, I felt an amazing attraction with everything about her, not even sexual, i emotionally wanted her to be mine in any way possible...
So Summertime shoots around and i started talking to this girl nonstop, texting, calling, maybe on the phone for 2-3 hours on end at a time on a regular basis, and i know it's really lame but we were young. We we're both somewhat into each other, i may be wrong, but over that whole summer, no moves didn't call anything on her, i respected her joked around with her, we felt close, but i was afraid to ask her out or anything because i had the persona of an AFC, respectful, un-adventurous, which made me feel unattractive.
Now at the end of my summer i had a surgery and the whole way through it she would text me saying sweet things and all you could dream of, getting while being bed ridden and on many many painkillers
and i told her, when it was all over with, i would bring her flowers, roses.
The day exactly after my surgery starting recovery not even fully, I obtained 20 bucks somehow, woke up at 5 in the morning and walked 2 miles to a store bought flowers and walked them 3 miles to her house, dropped them at her doorstep, and all the way back, being slow and drowsy this took me 5 hours, and i came home saying i just went for a walk, and i was tired as shit.
I got a text from her an hour later saying this was the sweetest thing a guy had ever ever done for her.
Now when you all read this your all saying to yourself "Ohhh Bad Idea Buddy" or "So Many Broken Rules" and I'm aware, but let me remind you i was a young AFC with no understanding of attraction, all i knew is that this girl was amazing.
Right About This time when i hit high-school this is when the time came that she became more and more aware and she was attracted to me, guess what, I didn't act at all, i sat their like a chump and came up with excuses, "OH WELL MY FRIEND LIKES HER TOO" or "OH WELL MY FRIEND ALREADY WENT OUT WITH HER AND I DON'T WANT HIM GIVING ME SHIT" (demonstrating un-alpha qualities in myself), because i wasn't sure or aware of what i would do if i did, and i was also afraid of the answer. I gave her flowers a couple more times, talked to her on the phone for hours on a weekly basis, but i never hung out with her. I gave up sleep and my life for this women, and she wasn't even mine.
I went the rest of the year keeping a close friendship with her, i think i even wrote her a song and played it over the phone. She started getting into shit, and boyfriends (many of which were jealous of me hehe
), but yet i felt empty, like i wasn't complete in the sense. I started to get over it. I started to unravel myself in a way, that next summer, i stopped talking to her and lost the contact that i once had unbelievably so close.
I was done pretty much, no that doesn't mean i gave up, i started waking up to what was around me, i began working out that summer i shed my image, i became better than i was...
...but their was still a problem... I didn't have what i wanted. I didn't have her. We Became in touch again, but not all there.
In a conversation with my friend he went ahead online about relationships, with asking me something about her "hey man, correct me if I'm wrong but, i do believe you we're in love with her"
I sat there and read it about 3 times and thought about it. Really? did I actually feel that way? Was I Blind to it? and it hit me and it was all there the evidence it was that feeling the whole time. She was special to me. I Replied, "Yes i was, and I think i still am"
And with this i had figured it out, and i started telling my close friends how i felt, and how i needed to tell her, I needed and answer, I, like an AFC was gonna ask her out to a dinner and take her somewhere nice and tell her.
So one day I worked up the balls to ask her, during class, and i sat there and said to her, this being clever to me "Hey I know what i want for my birthday, I wanna take you out somewhere"
Guess What Forum
She chuckled to herself, like a bitch, and said she didn't think this was a very good idea. I've known her for 3 years, and she wont go out somewhere with me, even if she has a boyfriend, i didn't see it as a big deal. I was broken that was the line for me, I was crushed, i depended on actually getting a yes and i got shot down. I spent that break sitting around not doing the thing i wanted with the love of my life. everything else was perfect except for the fact that i didn't have her and i wasn't going to get her.
The Break just went by everyone convincing me she was a bitch, and that i didn't need her and all this. I wasn't upset with her, we we're just at a neutral point. I still Loved her though.
And then during a late night surfing the web and AFC texting, I found the Game, and it was the messiah for all my problems, I figured out everything, checked the sight found the techniques and Bam like i said up their i was changed forever. I started using them on her and guess what, she starts texting me uncontrollably, throwing in smileys, i feel like it was in the begining of us even talking again. I felt right. I now have like 10 chicks numbers, I'm working on my relationships and getting into better qualifications with people now. I'm out their and it feels great. I like being a PUA now. It's a good change, and the one i was looking for. Thanks again this community is amazing. Just goes to show, if you know about this website and this community USE IT.
P.S. I need to attract her, i already have her comfort, so some tips on getting into that would be great.
Oh yes and thank you for listening to my story.
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