Hello there people of the world of seduction!

I'm new to the whole game thing, never even thought that something like this community existed. Always just assumed some guys were lucky and other wern't!

Now, some info about myself:

I'm a 19 year old guy living in the Netherlands. I've had 1 real girlfriend for a couple of months about 2 years ago. We did have some sexual interaction in that period, but havn't had any since. Not even kissed a girl since.

There was this guy at school who gave me the book 'The Game' wrote by Style (Neil Strauss) and this triggered me to go and search the internet for this so called 'seduction community'. So here I am!

I've been reading this forum for a while now, and came to the conclusion my problem is that i'm shy, inconfident, and have a big fear for rejection and / or a fear for approaching women. At least, this goes for any kind of romantic-relationship. I got plenty of female friends, that are really beautifull. I always get stuck in the friend-zone.

So my first plan is to get rid of that problem! I read about making a 30 minute walk in the park (or where ever) and just chat with random people. I was thinking on something similar. See, i'm in school to become a sport-instructor and do practical work at a gym. My plan was to just talk to people over there, as a start. The only down-side in this, is that there are more males then females in the gym. But I guess it's good to be able to approach anyone in the first place, especially for my practical work!! I can always move to some different spot, where there are more women, to continue my learning process!

Why the gym? Well, I got a good reason to chat to people. Very easy ice-breaker / opener like 'how's the workout going?' Or help people when they are doing something wrong / could be doing something better.

Any tips on what to talk about, except the work-out?

Well, I guess that was my story for now. Just a quick introduction!

Hope I will improve myself soon. Not only to be able to pick-up women, but also for my work as sport-instructor. This whole website just looks like a great way to improve yourself on any level, what ever your goals are!

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