Hi all,

I'm an 27 year old South African and have been in a sort of steady relationship with a rather good looking girl for about 2 and a half years. I guess you're wondering what I'm doing here, well, my situation is this...

I have been in 2 other long term relationships before this, each being great. Lots of sex and very happy for a while until I realize that she is not the girl for me but I keep the relationship going because I don't want to struggle with the whole pickup thing again and I end up running after my gf no matter how shit she gets. I have learned the hard way that this is not a healthy situation and I have become very anti-social.

I am an intelligent, witty young man and I guess I cant be that bad looking. I have serious confidence issues and have let myself go a little bit. I want to get out there and be social again and not feel anxious about going to the local pub. (I might add that I live in a very small town with not too many girls about either.)

I've read about half of "The Game" today and am willing to do the work, not so much for the girls, ok, very much for the girls but, to get my confidence back. To be a man again.

PS: Awesome looking site.