Hey everybody, Im based out of Iowa and new to this whole thing. I'll give you a quick rundown on my situation, and see if anyone has any pointers.

Physical - 19, not overly attractive with thinning shaggy blonde hair and blue eyes. I stand at 5'10.
Style - I dont really have one. I just exited a drugged out/hippie stage of my life 2 years ago and a good chunk of my clothing reflects this. I'm also color blind so I'm not always spot on when it comes to matching and I have very little style sense.
My Game - I do decently for myself, considering my situation. I'd say I engage with 3 different partners each year and they usually end up in mini-relationships. Right now however, I'm in a real rut with a case of one-itis. The girl loves me to death but I have no respect for her as a person, probably because she keeps crawling back even after some of the bad things I've done to her. Yet when it comes time to get out and party, I usually abandon my game after a few drinks knowing that I already have a sure thing thats just a phone call away.
I'm also fairly shy with girls I dont know well. I open up once I am comfortable with them, but by that point I'm usually in the friend zone and honestly content with that with these women.
I need to learn how to get outside of my own social circle (which is large enough, female prospects aside) and meet new and interesting people.

Any advice or starting points would be greatly appreciated.

You're color blind? Damn. Well at any rate....do some reading on the subject to start off, then move into applying it in real life.

Also i'm curious about your situation with the one chick you claim you have oneitis for, but don't respect as a human. What's that about?