Hello friends, this is my first post on this forum and instead of replying to some topics, I think an introduction will be better.

I'm a guy (23) from Europe and have lived in the US as well (for 2 years). I've been familiar with the game for around 2 years, but don't get as much out of it as I hoped. I read a lot (A LOT) and practiced a lot in real life as well.

I'm always humble, but since this in anonymous I can just say it as it is: I'm really attractive, intelligent and I'm really good at the sports I do. I get a lot of female attention at first sight and girls are interested in getting to know me. I kiss-closed HB9's, but the problem is: they don't come back. In the end, they see me as a friend or not even that...

There is something wrong with my game... I think I get stuck in the "building comfort" zone. What happened to me a couple of times: I meet a girl, within a few minutes we're kissing and the next morning she tells a friend of hers: "wow, what the f*** happened, I don't know, we were just making out". She gets a weird feeling about it.

I'm always funny, subtle and create status, but I can't "finish the game". A lot of people tell me: you're still single? You can get any girl you want! I just smile, but I wanna know why I don't get any, while I seem to offer the complete package.

I just met this HB8 in the bus that made me speechless in the beginning (ego depletion haha - we talked for 30 minutes and it was just fun). I saw her a couple of times afterwards, but it was no more than "hey how you're doing". Then, last week I was on a date with another HB8 (this was a one-timer, she was no fun) and the "bus girl" was in the same place with her friends. She kept looking at me, I just said "hi, what's up blabla" and that's it. I actually think this increased my status, because another good looking girl was surrounding me. But I don't wanna mess up with the bus girl, so that's why I decided to register me for this forum. I hope you guys can help me out. I usually get their numbers, a date sometimes as well, but I don't like dates, because afterwards they start seeing me as a friend. During a date I'm just myself. Funny, increase my status (subtly talk about my accomplishments and experiences), show interest, some kino as well...
Damn, after reading what I just wrote I should not complain and it sounds like I do everything right. But obviously there is something missing... Any ideas? (not enough escalation? not enough comfort? or just not enough attraction after a while? too boring?) Help me guys, it's much appreciated.

Again, I don't wanna sound arrogant, but I just want to explain the situation to all of you as it is.

After 1 on 1 help from some of you guys, I know girls get buyer's remorse. I should build more comfort, although it's very hard when things are going the way you want ("why wait for the kiss if you can kiss her right now?"). Is there any literature on how to deal with buyer's remorse? (or how to avoid it in the first place)

Hmmm....im gonna take a stab in the dark since I can't watch you in the field. Im gonna guess that maybe you talk too much or talk about yourself a little too much. Here's what I mean: you are a good looking guy, you are good at sports, it sounds like you have self confidence and by judging from your post your well spoken. Not to mention you probably have an accent--girls LOVE that...

Anyway it sounds like you would be a "catch" for most girls but there has to be some glaring flaw that you keep repeating and from my many years of watching guys game I can only assume you are falling into the "Talk too much-too nice caegory". Once again I don't know you so don't take any of this personal but my recommendation is to try and conciously make an effort to SLOW DOWN your speech pattern and get the girl to talking. Also make sure your not TOO fidgetty... Take some time to read up on Body Language and try to implement some basics... And the biggest suggestion I have to you is Slow down your speech and Sexualize the conversation anytime you get a chance !!

Good Luck